Know what you are looking for in a wedding planner. Someone to handle it all and you just approve/disapprove while writing checks or someone to execute your ideas/plans. We used EEbyT to plan it all and there's no one better, in my mind. Or you can ask our 185+ guests who all said "wow, best wedding ever".

Talk to multiple planners to find the one you are comfortable with, whether you have exact ideas or no clue. It's what they do for a living and you'll (hopefully) get a good feeling from the right one. That's how we settled on EEbyT.

I don’t write many reviews, but feel compelled to write this one as it describes a wonderful experience on a very wonderful day. My daughter got married on September 4th at Ralston White Retreat in Mill Valley, California. The location, while incredibly beautiful, was a challenge from the start as she and her fiancé moved unexpectedly to Boston, my husband and I live north of Sacramento, and the groom’s parents live in Southern California. None of us lived anywhere near Mill Valley and didn’t know the local vendors there.

Luckily, through a series of interviews and recommendations we connected with Tony White and his team at Extreme Elegance. Tony led us through the whole planning process. He brings amazing ideas, but is also very flexible in incorporating your ideas. He works within your budget and comes up with creative ideas to give you the aesthetic you are looking for without just spending more and more money. He is patient yet focused and keeps you moving forward through the preparations.

Then the day of he and his team keep everyone calm, keep things moving, and somehow bring everything together. From the big things like managing all the other vendors to the little things like making sure that the bridal party has something to eat while getting hair and makeup done, it’s all taken care of.

And he has access to amazing professionals that work with him. Dennis Dizon, the photographer we chose, is an incredible artist. We were blown away by his work. But Tony will also work with the vendors you choose, like Insalata our amazing caterer, and manages to build relationships with them as well so the whole event goes smoothly

I cannot imagine a more perfect day. And I couldn’t be more thrilled that we had Tony helping us make it perfect.