I am having five people total in my bridal party, two of which are males. One of them is a gay friend of a long time, and the other is my brother, who is six years younger than me. I was planning on sending a package to all of my bridesmaids with robes for getting ready, a wine glass with their initials, etc., but I came up with this idea before encompassing the boys.
Just to give you an idea of what type of guy my brother is: he's 24, has blonde dreadlocks, and would rather spend an evening "drinking wine" with his girlfriend than go out drinking. He's already told me he has no interest in being included in the bachelorette party, which is fine by me. His role is more to give a speech at the rehearsal dinner and stand up with us on the day of.
I've already spoken to both of them about how the day of will go down, so I know neither of them need a robe. So my question is, what in the world should I send them? Should I send them anything at all? I think my gay friend would be delighted to receive a scented candle, monogrammed cup, etc., but I honestly can't picture my brother's response being anything other than, "um, okay."
