Originally we decided not to invite kids to our wedding. I think I mainly did this because it will probably be a crazy night with lots of drinking/dancing and I assumed my family members with kids wouldn't want their kids there. The only kids that would be involved would be the kids of my cousins who live out of state, 8 kids total (ages 3-10).
Last night, my dad informed me that my cousins might not be able to come if their kids aren't invited. This really upset me because I'm really close with them and really want them there, but understand if they don't want to travel 7 hours away without their babies.
So my question is - is it really so bad to add 8 kids? My parents say they will cover the cost of them so that's not a problem...I'm just curious why others didn't include kids. Or if you had kids at your wedding, how was it? Maybe I just need to be reminded why I didn't want kids there to begin with?!
