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Lynnie
WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

Who made the first move?

Lynnie, on October 29, 2019 at 11:54 AM

Posted in Family and Relationships 162

Who had the courage to make the first move in your relationship? Was it you, or your boo? 👻 Photo by Stanlo Photography in Fort Lauderdale, FL Next Question: Who dropped "the L word" first? Back to the Beginning: You or your boo?

Who had the courage to make the first move in your relationship? Smiley love

Was it you, or your boo? 👻


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Photo by Stanlo Photography in Fort Lauderdale, FL




Next Question: Who dropped "the L word" first?

Back to the Beginning: You or your boo?

162 Comments

  • Lauren
    VIP February 2020
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    We met on Bumble so I had to be the one to make the first move! It forces girls to talk to the guys first. He asked for my number first, though!

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  • Gabriella
    Dedicated November 2021
    Gabriella ·
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    He did when we first met, asking a friend of mine for my phone number. But I’m the one who made the first date happen lol
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  • Shaunte
    Expert December 2021
    Shaunte ·
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    He made the first move.

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  • Mcmagie7
    Beginner October 2020
    Mcmagie7 ·
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    He made the first move!
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  • Sarah
    Devoted April 2022
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    Me! I even talked to her about this later and while she says she had been interested in me for months, she had decided to just not do anything about it 🤦🏼‍♀️
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  • Meghan
    Master October 2019
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    My wife. We met through mutual friends at a beer festival. She asked for my number first and asked to hang out first.

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  • Stephanie
    Beginner November 2020
    Stephanie ·
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    He did. We were at a party and he came up to me.

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  • Maiya
    Just Said Yes April 2021
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    Me😄. I def made the first move
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  • Suzie
    Super October 2021
    Suzie ·
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    We volleyed back and forth lol. I invited him to a gathering (through our mutual friend), but he FB friend invited me first. I expressed interest in a relationship first.
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  • Alicia
    Devoted October 2021
    Alicia ·
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    He most definitely made the first move, I needed some convincing to give my heart away again, lol
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  • Cher Horowitz
    Master December 2019
    Cher Horowitz ·
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    My boo! He approached me and struck up a conversation with me

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  • Vivian
    Just Said Yes February 2020
    Vivian ·
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    Definitely him! We met online but he was the one to initiate the meet up!
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  • J
    Savvy July 2020
    Jaimie ·
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    Him. I was very aloof
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  • Taylor
    VIP October 2020
    Taylor ·
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    I actually made the first move officially. We went to school together and I verbally told him that I was interested.

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  • Tori
    Devoted October 2021
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    He did for sure. He messaged me on Tinder, then asked for my number. Then on our first date, he went in for the kiss goodbye.

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  • Jasmine
    Master August 2021
    Jasmine ·
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    I believe I did, technically. I asked him to hang out to go see a movie that we both talked about wanting to watch.

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  • Vivian
    Devoted August 2023
    Vivian ·
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    My FH lol he wanted to start dating after a month or so of talking
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  • LaToia
    Savvy June 2022
    LaToia ·
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    He made the first move.

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  • Lacy
    Dedicated October 2020
    Lacy ·
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    Tough question - We worked together 10 years ago while I was in college, and we were pretty close and somehow that led to a friends with benefits type of thing. He was only working at our location temporarily, and I was still young, so the timing wasn't right then. I actually was in an 8 year relationship and married for 3.5 years after that. When that failed, he and I reconnected, and I'm the one who reached out, so I guess me.

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  • Elizabeth
    Just Said Yes December 2019
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    Me lol, he'll tell you he did it on purpose so I would hold his hand but I think he's making excuses.
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