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Who made the first move?

Lynnie, on October 29, 2019 at 11:54 AM Posted in Family and Relationships 4 162
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Who had the courage to make the first move in your relationship? Smiley love

Was it you, or your boo? 馃懟


Who made the first move? 1

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162 Comments

Latest activity by Anna, on April 3, 2020 at 2:56 PM
  • Melle
    Legend June 2019
    Melle
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    I want to say me. Because I asked for his #
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  • Kelsey
    VIP September 2020
    Kelsey
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    Him I guess, we were long distance at first so he came to visit first. I can't remember who asked for who's number first

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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn
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    She did. We met on Tinder, but she messaged me first and asked for my number first as well.

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  • Kate
    Devoted November 2019
    Kate
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    Him, though I'm pretty sure our mutual friend (who introduced us) told him to message me the day after we met. Smiley xd

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  • Amber
    Master February 2020
    Amber
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    I want to say him, even though he was super nervous and it took me giving him a nudge in the right direction to let him know I was okay with him kissing me Smiley xd (we were best friends before dating)

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  • Ashley
    Dedicated August 2021
    Ashley
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    Technically I did, I told him he was cute and we haven鈥檛 stopped talking since!
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  • Jill
    Expert April 2020
    Jill
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    My boo made the first move! He swiped right before I did and invited me to hang out first.

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  • Jenny
    Savvy August 2020
    Jenny
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    I did! We met at work, and I asked him out for drink.

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  • Kasyah
    Devoted July 2020
    Kasyah
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    I did- asked him to help me with some homework in college 馃槀
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  • Katlyn
    Devoted December 2021
    Katlyn
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    Me, I guess!! We met on a dating app, and our free talk time was about to expire, so I gave him my number if he was interested in talking more, and it's a good thing I did Smiley smile

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  • Shelby
    Expert November 2020
    Shelby
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    Him! I was actually trying to ignore him lol, now here we are 馃グ馃挋
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  • Tarsis
    Just Said Yes April 2022
    Tarsis
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    I sent the first message on a dating app. "Hello Smiley smile"
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  • Lauren
    Just Said Yes September 2021
    Lauren
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    Him! He messaged me on social media and asked for my number!
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  • Cyndy
    Rockstar May 2019
    Cyndy
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    Me. We met online and I messaged him first.
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  • A
    Just Said Yes November 2020
    AnJella
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    It was me, he looked lonely so i gave him a hug and he said as soon as i hugged him he knew i was the one
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  • Ashley
    Devoted July 2021
    Ashley
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    He did. He was a guest at a wedding that I was working at. At the end of the night friends were asking me if I was going to the after party. I was thinking about it, and was going to say no, when he said, "I'll go if you go." So we went and have been together ever since.

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  • Tara
    VIP November 2016
    Tara
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    Me! My husband was shy and kind of introverted. I was the exact opposite!

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  • Amanda
    Savvy August 2021
    Amanda
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    It was me. I had to have one beer for courage and then I made the first move.
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  • Teresa
    Devoted October 2020
    Teresa
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    He did, but I had to drop the MOAB hints for him to do it.

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  • Andrea
    Master January 2021
    Andrea
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    Definitely it was my fiance who did

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