Who is bringing all the drama?

If there is any drama, it's definitely from my FH's family.

I don't want to jinx it... So I'll just say we have been blessed so far lol

Luckily it has just been vendors not replying at all - but since they arent hired yet I've just been crossing them off the possibles list.

We avoided drama for the most part but recently the drama is coming from the family. We both have large families and love them all. But the drama happens because of incorrect information being passed around (and they don't ask about the situation but just confront us with how they feel about the informationa that is I correct). Then they won't tell us who said what.

A little bit of what family members want or dont want. I ignore it

Drama-free life here!! i've been clear to everyone that if they start or cause any drama, they will be removed from the process.

Family too many jokes about us plus the fgmil is killing me

Father in law and his 3rd wife. They are causing so much drama he has been cut from the wedding party and has even threatened to not come day of. He's been nothing but unsupportive since day one! And it doesn't really bother me and wouldn't be an issue if it didn't bother my fiance...

My Aunt is the one bringing all the drama! Already had prepared myself for the snarky comments about my dress, and decorations etc. But for some reason she is trying to plan my wedding as a family reunion!!! And trying to plan my honeymoon and have everyone in the family there. It is super frustrating and she is not understanding why this is NOT what I want. My fiancé and I want a small wedding of like 50-70 people between our two families and friends, and I don’t really talk to all of our family members nor do I know all of them. This is supposed to be mine and my fiancé’s day, and I feel like she is trying to take over, no matter what I say.

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SAME, one is fine the other is uber competitive since she just got married

My sister literally told me "I'm not gonna spend all that money on a dress I'm only wearing once!" I found super affordable dresses online that they all get to choose. No one is making her do anything!! I'm not even having any extra obligatory celebrations. So frustrating. Just like a slap in the face honestly.

So far, there hasn’t been TOO much drama! But my grandparents have probably been the most pushy/giving unsolicited advice.

We haven’t really had any drama. But I guess I could say my FMIL. She wants to invite way too many people!

I haven’t really had any drama. We are not getting along with one of my aunts and so I am having trouble deciding wether to invite her or not.

Only one single family member on my end...my aunt. Oy, she's inserting opinions and I'm at the point where I don't discuss it with her.

FSIL for sure! My FH didn’t want her involved in any way because he knew how she was but it was me who said we should include her in something since she’s family. BIG MISTAKE! She has been a pain in the ass from the beginning, from the save the dates to her daughters dress to her dress and now providing the alcohol for the wedding (which she offered to do!) it got so messy that now her and her daughter are out of the wedding.

None yet, but I know my FMIL will find some dang way to stir the drama pot. She always does. If I had it my way, she wouldn't be in attendance to our wedding.

My fiance is indirectly bringing most of the drama due to his non-communication and listening skills. I told him in January who I was choosing in my bridal party (those who have been my "day 1") and already chosen their dresses and placed the order in March. My fiance informs his grown daughter's the end of April about the wedding and tells them they would be bridesmaids. When I told him no and explained why, I offered something else for them to do which was okay. Now they have an attitude cause they can't be bridesmaids in my wedding. I told my fiance maybe they need to stop having all these kids and find someone to marry them and then they could walk down the aisle but not my bridal party

No one! I think we are incredibly lucky - I look at some forums on here and cringe sometimes.

We haven't experienced that yet. Hopefully we won't.