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Who is bringing all the drama?

Lynnie, on June 25, 2019 at 11:05 AM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 112
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Weddings can easily attract drama from all sides! Have you experienced any wedding drama? Did it come from friends or family??


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  • Melle
    Master June 2019
    Melle ·
    I sort of experienced it. It was mostly with the best man. Sorta. Not really drama just he did a lot of things that annoyed me
  • Caytlyn
    Champion November 2019
    Caytlyn ·

    My FSIL for sure

  • Allie
    Rockstar August 2019
    Allie ·

    Family! My dad has caused the most drama. He is upset we aren't doing super traditional stuff. He doesn't understand how we can get married without a best man or MOH lol!

  • Brianna
    Super October 2019
    Brianna ·

    One of my FH's daughters will definitely cause some drama (she has behavioral issues). Were hoping to avoid any drama other than that (which we know is inevitable! Just hopefully not during the ceremony!).

  • Natalia
    Devoted October 2020
    Natalia ·

    As of now, my mom has been the most critical in terms of my decision making. We aren't really having a traditional white wedding, it is more along the lines of a romantic gothique setting. And she is not a fan of a black wedding dress.

    However, when the time comes when we make the big decisions and décor, and even on the day of the wedding, I know my FHs grandmother will be the most critical. Hopefully she does not have a heart attack when she seems me in a 'demonic' black dress.

  • Kelsey
    Super September 2020
    Kelsey ·

    My FSIL. Doesn't like the date, doesn't like the location and got pissed at me when she didn't pick up her phone when I went dress shopping. I was trying to video chat with her to show her the dress and she wouldn't pick up. Sent her 2 texts messages, my FH tried to call and text her too. Then she got mad at us...

  • Jessica
    VIP September 2020
    Jessica ·
    Definitely my family! Ugh!
  • Melissa
    Rockstar September 2019
    Melissa ·
    Not so much a specific person, but for me, tux shopping has been all the drama. First had an annoying woman telling me everything I wanted was inappropriate. Just this week, our 2 groomswomen have told FH they don’t want to wear the jackets for the tuxedo, and only the vest. I don’t want to be a bridezilla but their choices in my opinion are the full tux like everyone else, or dresses that match the bridesmaids, but the choice is up to them.
  • Michelle
    Super August 2019
    Michelle ·
    Bridal party! It's not that they don't get along but they tend to butt heads sometimes and some have been bad about communicating which gets others upset. We also had a couple of people who we weren't able to invite basically corner my FH to rudely ask why they didn't get an invitation. (Not that it was rude that they asked, they were rude in the way they asked.)
  • K
    Dedicated July 2020
    Kaitlyn ·
    So far, no one. I don’t really think we will have drama. We have pretty easy going families.
  • Becca
    Super August 2019
    Becca ·
    We dont have much drama, but there was recently a little involving one of the groomsman's plus 1. Or lack of us giving him one at least.
  • Michaela
    Expert May 2020
    Michaela ·

    My bridesmaids have a bit of drama between the 6 of us at all times lol. It's just the usual drama so it's not a big deal. I don't know if my girls agree, but I like our drama; it's a part of our friendship lol. So far it has very minimally affected my wedding and we are all committed to making sure it stays that way. So far so good

  • Michaela
    Expert May 2020
    Michaela ·
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    This made me lol. Tell them to suck it up, it's only for a few hours, they can do it!

  • Denise
    Super September 2019
    Denise ·

    Thankfully there's not been any drama recently, I guess I kinda am to blame for that though because I kind of stopped caring. If there was going to be it would be my side though, his side's very laid back.

  • Katie
    VIP November 2019
    Katie ·
    Sadly my maid of honor has been doing a lot if not awesome things lately
  • Heather
    Expert April 2020
    Heather ·

    There isn't really drama per say, but my FMIL stresses me out. There hasn't been any friend drama.

  • Tonia
    Expert October 2019
    Tonia ·

    My FMIL and FSIL for sure, but it's all related to the wedding rehearsal dinner. I love them dearly and they are so sweet but they have been bringing some drama lately.

  • Valentina
    Dedicated September 2019
    Valentina ·
    🙏🏻No drama here🙏🏻
  • MrsCase2020
    Dedicated September 2020
    MrsCase2020 ·
    A friend who was bridesmaid that’s been about it
  • latasha
    VIP September 2019
    latasha ·
    Friend. I have one friend who is kind of bringing drama. Not anything too serious or anything that’s stressing me out too much.

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