Now that the new year is upon us, FH is finally able to talk wedding and give opinions. We are now torn between 2 scenarios for our expected 40-50 wedding guests.
I would like for you to think about this from guests' perspective and as bride/groom.
1. Have the wedding at a chapel and then go back to the rental cabin for the reception and have catered BBQ supper along with wine/beer and conversations that could last into the night with no set ending time. No speeches/dancing/bouquet toss. There will be cake cutting as the only wedding tradition. The rest will be cocktail party environment because that's the tone of our guests and us.
2. Have the wedding AND reception at a brewery with a set start and stop time for the party. No speeches/dancing..For both scenarios the wedding is at 5:30pm.
With scenario 2. we don't have to worry about parking and hiring a bartender but we lose the comfort/casual ease of guests coming and going at their own pace.
#1 has been our plan since July.