Which is more important to you: your date or your venue?

Although our date isn’t super sentimental to us, my fiancé and I needed a date that was in my fiancé’s summer holiday from grad school, so finding a venue that had the right availability was important to us first and foremost.

Before walking my fiance was all about keeping the specific date we wanted and I agreed. Walked in and absoloutley fell in love with our venue. Before touring our date was available but when we went into the office we found out it was just booked! My fiance looked at me without missing a beat and said "I'm fine with taking the week before ! That okay by you?" Laughed said yes and we took our venue over the date

The venue! October 20th has no significance to us but our actual anniversary would be too cold for most of our guests and October is my favorite time of the year. I love fall, Halloween, pumpkin patches, and everything about it. I am so excited we were able to find a date in October but my venue was definitely #1. I chose it as a 10 year old child.

We chose our date first, but would have changed if we found a venue we absolutely loved that wasn’t available on the day we originally wanted. Luckily, the venue we both loved was available the date we wanted so it all worked out!

When picking a date and location I went with the date, because I wanted as many of my family and friends to be able to attend. The venue just will fall into place.

The venue or "where" was much more important. I changed my dates a few times, but the last date that I really wanted to get married on was June 20, 2020. We were planning on getting married in Hawaii (still are). However, that day landed on a weekend when it was very crowded on the beaches and traffic was crazy. We decided to get married on a Wednesday, so it wouldn't be so crazy. Quite happy with my decision and can't wait to get married in Hawai'i!

Venue was more important! We were super flexible and had 4 potential dates to pick from, but the venue had to wow us (and it does)!

The venue. We weren't picky on the date

Our venue was important to us because so many places around us were expensive. We originally were set on having our wedding the weekend before Halloween, but the date was already taken. So we settled for 2 weeks before Halloween

As I am in search for a venue currently, I would have to say the "where" is more important. I was set on a date but discovered people book 2 years in advance, and at that rate we won't be getting married next year if I am too set on specifics. I've accepted the fact that some things are okay to not have such as "that date" Plus as I got older a lot of stuff that matter 10 years ago doesn't matter as much now

For us, the venue was definitely more important! We kind of chose a date based on when we wanted to get married and what all was going on during that month (graduations, birthdays, etc.). Love my venue!

Venue! We knew we wanted a September or October wedding but weren’t particular about the actual date. We really would have preferred a Saturday wedding, but the venue we really liked only had Fridays and Sundays available for Fall 2020, so Friday, October 9th it is!

The ‘where’ is more important to me. I had already booked my venue on the perfect date. I later realized it wasn’t my DREAM venue. I ended up changing my venue and being that they didn’t have my date available I had to change my date. I originally had a Saturday in the beginning of 2020 (2/22/2020 to be exact). I had to change it to a Sunday in mid- 2020 (6/7/2020). I also had to send out ‘Change the Dates’ because I had already sent the ‘Save the Dates’. Talk about stress!!!! Ultimately, I am extremely happy with my change and I love love loveeeee my new venue.

The date was definitely more important! We wanted a late summer wedding and I 100% wanted it to be August. The venue we found ended up being perfect though!

Definitely the venue. I would change the date of my wedding to match when my venue had available. My sister was married at the venue i'm getting married at and I have had my heart set on the place since 2013!!

At first it was the date my fiance wanted his parents date but it was on a tuesday for day of the week and i said sorry but no one will come on a tues, so we switched the date to a friday and found venue right after. Fri and sundays are cheaper then saturdays dates for some reason so i went with cheaper bc weddings cost alot and its just us paying for all of our wedding . So August 30th 2019 i will be Mrs. Costello woo hoo lol

The venue was definitely more important for us!

The date was more important to us. You won’t remember the venue a few years down the road but you’ll certainly remember the day!

We found a venue and then looked at dates they had available! We took the last date they had available all of next summer and fall! (And we booked in May!)

Honestly my fiancé have always talked about having a September wedding. We both love fall and September is probably our favorite month! So when we thought about our wedding we always discussed Labor Day weekend of 2020. The venue that we looked at first had our date available and we ran with it! We are so excited to be married in this day!