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Where to do bridesmaid proposals?

Kaleen, on January 9, 2020 at 9:47 PM Posted in Planning 0 9
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Did you ask all your bridesmaids individually or all together as a group ??


Latest activity by MrsD, on January 13, 2020 at 12:14 PM
  • Kristen
    Rockstar November 2020
    Kristen ·
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    Up to you. Maybe moh separately if you feel other bridesmaids may be offended. Maybe you can meet for coffee or brunch. Or dress shopping.
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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    Individually. Asking as a group puts unnecessary pressure on them to say yes.
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  • Nicole
    Super August 2020
    Nicole ·
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    I asked my three best friends together since we've all been friends since 3rd grade. I asked my two cousins and friend separately. There wasn't any pressure on them since they all knew they would be part of my bridal party some day.

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  • Theadra
    Devoted June 2021
    Theadra ·
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    All of them knew prior to the to me doing the proposal . But of course, I had to make it official and I sent them letters since they live all over the US
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  • Angel
    Expert August 2020
    Angel ·
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    I'm having 2 MOH's and that's it! The plan is to go out for dinner and drinks, and surprise them with little bridesmaid proposal boxes at dinner! One of my MOH's has been my best friend since birth, literally. And the other, we've been best friends for over 10 years and they're both over the moon about it and already know they're going to be a part of my wedding. But I still want to make it special!

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  • Christina
    Dedicated October 2021
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    I asked one bridesmaid alone, MOH alone, but two other bridesmaids together! The four of them on the whole aren’t individually friends aside from the two I asked together which is why I did it the way I did. I also know the only required cost for them will be their dresses (I plan to keep at or under $50, so far my eye is on a $35 dress, and if it came down to it I would pay for this if they needed it in order to participate) if you think there may be any reason that anyone would feel a need to decline I would ask separately , so that you can have a conversation right away to work through it or allow them to decline without embarrassment
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  • Amanda
    Dedicated January 2021
    Amanda ·
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    I did it all individually. But they live hours away from us so I had to mail their proposals to them. All but one already knew it was coming tho Smiley smile

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  • Tiffany
    Beginner September 2021
    Tiffany ·
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    I asked my bridesmaid together as a group during my birthday brunch. It’s hard to get all them together at the same time unless they are celebrating me. I handed them each a card where I hand wrote a poem explaining how I feel about them and that there’s something I’ve been wanting to ask them. I Where to do bridesmaid proposals? 1

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    had bought photo card boxes and printed photos of us from grade school to present and added a bridesmaid wine glass, jewelry and a small bottle of moscato. Then I had scrabble pieces that spelled their name and asking them to be my bridesmaids. Once they accepted, I brought out bridal bags with their names on them. We went to brunch in North Hollywood and told the hostess why I was there and if they could help me surprise my best friends and ask them to be my bridesmaids.
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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
    MrsD ·
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    I texted them individually first to make sure they could financially afford it & had the time to commit. After they said yes, I sent formal proposal boxes in the mail!

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