The jewelers said I should get my rings saudered before the wedding since it will hurt my engagement ring if they are not. I'm fine with this but then I was like there won't be any pictures of the rings separate and I kind of want that. My engagement ring is custom made so we had a custom wrap (band on both sides of e ring) made, in all honesty my wedding band looks odd without my engagement ring. Also I will be sending them in the beginning of September to get the saudered for my October wedding. I have 2 bridal showers in September (FH's family and my family live 2 hrs apart) so I won't have my ring for those, which isn't horrible but it still makes me think about it. I'm including pics of the wedding band with my engagement ring. I don't think I have one of just the wedding band.