What to do when you feel overwhelmed?

When I get overwhelmed, I usually take a few days off of planning, I don't let myself do anything wedding related. I also usually try to find a way to have a date night/day with my FH where we don't talk about wedding stuff.

I agree with Ashlee's advice. It's so important to be able to relax and not think or talk about your wedding - especially in the weeks leading up to it. Remember your bachelorette doesn't need to be a weekend. You can do a night on the town, which is much less complicated to plan.

How about eliminating either the shower or bachelorette and doing one of those? Or have smaller events with less guests? The less people, less stress.
We are not having a shower, as we do not need stuff.
I’ve also decided only to invite a small group to the bachelorette and keep it simple.

We are only doing a bachelorette party just to have fun and it's also with a small amount of people with a few of my friends. This should be a stress free thing too unwind and have fun. If you need things have them send it to your home so your not overwhelmed and enjoy yourself wedding day will be coming up soon marry your love of your life. And things will go back to normal

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Love the date night/day! I was just talking to my fiance about being more intentional with those! Need some healthy distractions! Thank you for the advice!

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Very true! I am exploring more ways to help, so this is very helpful! Thank you Becky

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Thank you, Shannon! Simple is always nice! I have some thinking to do in the next few days about the approach.

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Love the comment "things will go back to normal" Thanks for the advice, Monique!

View Quoted Comment Your welcome that's what we are here for to help each other I'm glad that I was able to help