I have an unusual situation. My husband and I are already married and have been for almost two years now. We have been together since I was forteen and I will be thirty this year. Not to mention we have 3 children (12)(3) and (1). When we initially got married we went right to the courthouse - It was just us and our youngest since we got married while I was on maternity leave. We ended up having a luau themed reception thrown by my parents that was awesome.
However, we have decided that we want another ceremony for family and friends to attend and plan on having a cocktail hour reception with appetizers passed, a bar, cake cutting, and a DJ with decent pictures from a photographer.
Any thoughts on where to start... and how to still keep it cost effective without losing our wants.