Wedding Vents

I'm still at the beginning stages of planning our wedding...and MAN! I'm about to crawl out of my skin. My 4 closest girlfriends are my BMs and MOH. My MOH and I have been friends for 20 years....she's SO opinionated....I tell her I'm thinking of 'such and such' for the BM dresses and she just gawks..."you should do THIS" Isn't this MY wedding??? I already planned and executed YOUR wedding 2 years ago!! And I wasn't even her MOH.

And yes....when wedding is mentioned for anything, it doubles in price

I don't have anything too intense yet, besides cost of things! One pet peeve though is towards myself..I bang my darn E-ring on stuff a lot, maybe like once a day lol..today at the grocery store: BAM on the metal thing of the conveyor belt, last night on my headboard as i was going to sleep. luckily no damage yet, i gotta be way more careful!! :-)

I guess one I just thought of is the confused look on people's faces when I tell them I'm not sure where we'll end up living..i'm in grad school and helloo i need a job which won't happen til after I relocate for internship and finish that. First things first people!

My sister (one of my BMs) is already getting on my nerves... I knew I was wary of asking her on the bridal party. She complains about everything and thinks she knows best because she is the oldest sister. My last communication with the bridal party, I told everyone that I booked the hair and makeup for us all, and we'd need to meet at 10 am. I hear later from my dad that my sister intends to go to her own person for hair and makeup. He said she probably just doesn't want to get up so early. *rolls eyes* She really only thinks of herself. Now I have to see who wants to take her place in the stylist's chair. Maybe my out of town friend?

Everyone asking me how I want this or how I want that. I just am not sure yet darn it!

I really didn't think I was going to have "offspring issues" with a DW wedding. However, I have the wife of a friend of the FH who insists on bringing her kids to Vermont and staying in another inn. They are 21 and 16. I do think they can stay home themselves.

Other than that...I have nothing to rant about. I refused to let anything get to me.

Furtue mrs traeder i feel ya! lol "what are your colors?" "who are your bridesmaids" "what are you going to do about this? or that? or the other thing?" STOP IT WiTH THE QUESTIONS! LOL Because i just don't know! and then they look at you like you're unprepared yet they have no advice or help to offer.

Other than that, people actually OFFERING to be my bridesmaids! lol as if I can't pick and choose on my own. and people actually telling me that they'll be coming to the wedding before ive even sent invites. like ummm, are you sure you're invited? lol ugh weddings!

My wedding vent is that I changed my colors snd my MOH and BM complained they didn't want to wear those colors. Well you can either wear them or you can be a guest at the wedding and wear whateva you want.