Wedding Planners for the Big Day?!

So I've been debating getting a wedding planner for JUST the wedding day, because I don't know if we would be able to afford one for anymore time before that, and I want to make sure everything goes smoothly without making one of my friends and family do it and miss out on the fun. But I have NO IDEA where to find them, much less fathom what the cost would be! I'm already freaking out about STILL not having a photographer, or a cake ordered, or even invitations ordered!

On top of that, my dad flipped out on me about wanting his dad at my bridal shower weekend (the boys are going to the gun range), which would involve my step-grandma coming to my bridal shower... and she's very conceited and selfish, and always wants the spotlight on her. I'm just overwhelmed with the things that were supposed to be sorted out this month, and I feel disgustingly behind with 4 months left 😭