FMIL is suggesting we find a planner so we don't have to worry about finding things on our own, but I kind of like doing things myself? I can definitely see how it would be less stressful, but it's not something I could see spending money on. I'm thinking I want a DOC though, so myself, FMIL, my dad, MOH and BMs don't have to worry about things going smoothly the day-of.
Did you get a planner?