Wedding planner or not?

Hey Mary!! Congratulations on your engagement!!

Is there anything specific that is worrying you about planning your wedding? Two years does sound like a long time to plan your wedding but if you are always second-guessing your decisions, time really will fly by! Hiring a wedding planner would certainly put you at ease that everything is taken care of in a timely manner.

The great thing is that you have plenty of time to find the right wedding planner so you can really find someone that you work well with.

There are a couple of articles from the Ideas section that I think will be helpful to you -

How To Choose the Right Wedding Planner For You

10 Questions to Ask a Wedding Planner

View Quoted Comment I knew exactly what I wanted for my wedding but my FH wants to be VERY included in the details....every....little....detail lol. so i figured if he knew it a professional was helping he might ease up a bit on his concerns and help me keep my cool as well. I want to do it together dont get me wrong but I just dont want to get stressed by it and just not have anymore fun planning it.

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It's so sweet that your FH wants to be involved in the wedding planning!!

It would be a great idea to hire a wedding planner to keep all your plans organized and help you both to destress about planning.

Have you browsed through the WeddingWire vendor search tool yet? There are plenty of California Wedding Planners that you can search through so you can filter your search further based on your specific location, wedding date, and budget. Are you considering a full-service wedding planner?

View Quoted Comment Hes pretty amazing and I'm glad we found each other! I have loom through the vendors a few times but havent found a whole lot yet. My ex husbands wife is a good freind of mine and is begging me to let her do it but I want her IN my wedding not running it lol she swears she can manage both and I believe her but I want it to be a fun experience as my bridesmaid and not put all the work on her

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Yes, that's fair enough! You want her to enjoy your wedding as a guest and not as a vendor working at it! It's so kind of her to offer to help though!

I hope you find the perfect wedding planner!