Does anyone know of a tactful way to ask my planner if she has a commission structure with her recommended vendors? Honestly, she's a great planner and I really like her, but we're already paying her a lot as is. I'm starting to suspect that the vendors I'm getting through her are marking things up on my bill to pay her referral commissions, which I'd really not be okay with -- *especially* if it's undisclosed to me. If they want to pay her commissions, I'm fine with that - but if that's the case, *they* need to pay it; I'm not willing to have those fees passed along to me when I'm already paying her thousands of dollars.
Considering that we hired her hoping that she'd save us money by knowing the ins and outs of the industry (and told her so at the interview), markups really weren't in our plan when we hired her. Is there a way for me to ask her if she's doing this, or is this something I should have specified up front and now the moment has passed? Is there anything I can do?