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Wedding Nightmares

Futuremrsk, on February 18, 2019 at 9:04 AM Posted in Planning 0 31
Welp, its begun. The wedding nightmares. Got an email last Friday that me dress was in! Yay! So I drive the 8 hours home after work so me, my mom, and FMIL can all go to the shop and make sure everything looks good. I stayed at FMILs house (my parents smoke so I wont stay there), and I crash as soon as I get in.

Woke up Saturday practically crying because of the nightmare. We all went to the shop and they showed me my dress. First of all, it wasnt even my dress. It was some weird halter top and skirt combo. Ot was the wrong color. Now, I'm not talking it was white when it was supposed to be ivory wrong. The thing was SALMON PINK. Seriously. For whatever reason I tried it on, and my mom came at me with a needle and thread and tried to start sewing the skirt to the top. Ended up with a huge hole in the skirt. I'm bawling my eyes out in the shop and ran into the back. That's when I woke up.

What?

Thankfully, my dress was PERFECT! No rips or missing buttons or anything. It's the right color. And it barely zipped lol. I've gained a little weight due to a medicine I was on, but I know I will lose it by June when I need to go back in for another fitting. It's only about 10 to 15 pounds and I can lose that with some cardio a few times a week.

Anyone else having nightmares about the wedding? Share them!!!

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Latest activity by J, on July 27, 2019 at 12:25 AM
  • Chandra
    Master May 2019
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    Mine all revolve around way too many people showing up. One i had like 12 people claiming unsaid they were bridesmaids and I threw a major fits. Then 300 people stormed the reception, ate everything in sight then left immediately while FH and I were getting ready to come into the venue.
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    Oh my! That's terrifying! It's crazy what our minds will dream up while we are sleepi g isnt it?
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  • Chandra
    Master May 2019
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    It really is!!! There have been a few others but I can't remember them. They're just so ridiculous lol
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  • Malki
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    I haven’t had nightmare yet but I’ve had two awful anxiety attacks where my heart was racing, I felt like I couldn’t breathe, and I almost threw up from stress...the first one was about the guest list and the second one was about a minor, insignificant disagreement my FH and I had 🤦‍♀️
    I’m so glad Im not the only one dealing with intense emotions leading up to the wedding.
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    Oh no! I'm so sorry you're dealing with that! Anxiety sucks! Planning can definitely be stressful! I'm glad we decided on a longer engagement because it has definitely helped ease the stress a lot for us.
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  • Mrs. S
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    For a while I had one that I was nine months pregnant and couldn’t wear my dress. Then I started having different ones like my venue could only hold 50 ppl for dinner and the rest would have to sit outside in the cold.
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  • Jordan
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    I had a dream that my venue cancelled my wedding a week prior because they had accidentally double booked. I haven't really slept well at all since planning has begun but hopefully as things get checked off the list it will get better.

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    Omg. I dont know what I'd do if my venue did that! Probably go utterly bridezilla on them! And the pregnancy nightmare....😶😶
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    Oh no. That would be terrible!! I hope you get some good sleep! I find that Sleeptime tea helps calm me down and I sleep better.
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  • N
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    Dreamt we had our wedding in a school auditorium for some reason (we are supposed to be in a garden) and no bridesmaid had the right dress on. We somehow got $100,000 from gifts, so I guess there was that 😅
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  • Mrs. S
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    Right now we’re at the 10-9 month mark before the wedding so I’m like be extra careful!! Lol
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    I had a terrible one last night! I had completely lost track of time and was super late and not prepared about 20 minutes before go time. I was actually 30 minutes away from the venue somehow! In rushing around to get there, I forgot my petticoat (which is a ballgown one, so it was a big problem) and just had a meltdown. The worst part was in the dream I blamed everyone around me except myself. I was a terrible stereotypical bridezilla and I was angry and raging and miserable in the dream.

    I basically was my own nightmare o.O It was pretty terrible. I swear I'm not prone to doing any of those things (I'm always early, armed with lists, and generally own up when it's my own fault).

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  • Colleen
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    I keep having nightmares that my venue caught fire or clossed down.
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  • F
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    Same here!! We are in August!
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    Oh no, that would be awful!
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    Oh boy! That's crazy!! Just makes you want to be EXTRA prepared now doesnt it? I'm the same way, lists and always leaving earlier than I need to!
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    I think I'd overlook the aud and dress mishaps for 100k!! 😂😂
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    It does, but I don't think I can possibly be more prepared! I have a loooong day of checklist for before I leave my house, everything is already packed in bins WITH labels on the covers that tell the person setting up what's in each box. I have a set up guide very clearly and neatly printed out, I have pages on contact info for my VIPs and vendors, and I have what I think is the best day of emergency kit, I've been super ready for over a week, haha!


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    You really are prepared! I hope everything goes perfectly for you!
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    Roflcopter me too! I felt an immediate mood change after that one 😜
    Hello new car and house!
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