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Ebony502
Super November 2015

Wedding mood swings...I hope it's not just me

Ebony502, on July 31, 2015 at 12:29 PM Posted in Planning 0 11

Random vent/frustration. I go from really excited and happy things are coming together to really sad and frustrated that things aren't going to go right. For example yesterday I was over the moon that I was the 101 countdown mark and all of my BMs paid for their dresses. Today I'm like freaking Eeyore because I'm not sure if MUA price will be too much for BMs and can't decide on their gifts. I go through this transition pretty much every week. I hope it's normal but it just feels so extreme. I'm trying to just snap myself out of it but it's not working. I decided I'd get it off my chest and share with you guys. I'm sure I'll be over the moon about something next week, lol.

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Latest activity by Ebony502, on July 31, 2015 at 3:09 PM
  • Tori
    VIP September 2015
    Tori ·
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    Pretty normal. Give yourself a weekend off. There were times I had to hide all my wedding stuff so my brain would just stop.

    Just remember no matter what you will be marrying your FH & the day will be great!

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  • Jai
    Expert October 2015
    Jai ·
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    Me too.

    You're not alone! lol

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  • Heather
    Devoted August 2015
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    I know what you mean. I feel like I've had the worst PMS for the last month. I'm usually so even tempered and patient. When I have PMS I feel like I lose all coping skills (usually only one day of that crazy feeling each month, thank goodness)and I've been like that all month.

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  • Ashley<3Ryan21
    Devoted September 2015
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    Def. in that boat too... lol I find my fluctuations are more with the full moon (which is tonight), it's a little cray cray I know but as a Cancer the moon just messes with my emotions lol. Thank goodness it's a new moon the weekend of our wedding!

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  • CAJ
    Devoted August 2015
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    Ugh. I hear ya! I'm not mood swingy as much, but I have been more irritable lately in general. I've been having issues with insomnia the past couple weeks as well, so that sucks. Smiley sad

    Either way, I'm in the home stretch now, so it's almost over, thank goodness!

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  • StitchingBride
    Master October 2014
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    IO don't even want to think of all the mood swings I went through. I'm just like that most of the time anyway Smiley smile no, you are not the only one.

    don't worry about the BM gifts, if you really can't decide, just be honest with them, give them a card with a gift IOU, and ask them if they want gift cards or to be taken shopping to get gifts after the wedding. I've done that with people more than once, and they always seem to like it. don't worry about it Smiley smile

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  • Brenda
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    I'm the same. I hate it. It's so extreme too.

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  • Mphgirl23
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    Don't forget your BMs don't have to use your makeup artist. Three of my maids are doing their own hair and makeup--one is just using a different MUA and hair stylist that she chose. Just remember your wedding is all about you--don't worry too much about pleasing others. I know for the weddings that I've gone to and been in, I am just happy to be a part of the special day and as long as food and drink is there--everyone will be happy!

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  • MrsA
    Master October 2015
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    Me too. Some days excited, some days nervous, some days I just want it over with!!

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  • SeattleBride
    Expert September 2015
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    I am exactly in the same boat. my moods are cray cray. poor FH.. mine are excitement and then complete uncaring for anything.. like


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  • Ebony502
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    Thanks Ladies!! I'm glad to know I'm not alone! I've been unleashing a little on my MOH (sister) I apologized for my crazy and promised to give her a week void of wedding woes.

    @MPH very true, and everyone will definitely be well fed!

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