Wedding dress dilemma?

I personally wouldn't take that kind of financial loss over a wedding gown, as most salons don't allow refunds or cancellations of orders. Nor would I spent over $15k on wedding dresses.. As Mim said, stop looking at other dresses.

That's a beautiful dress, but if you fell in love with the dress you purchased, I would stick with that one. If for some reason you change your mind and just can't see yourself in the one you already ordered, do it! But I wouldn't intentionally try it on and ruin the image of the dress you have now.

It looks to much like lingerie to me.

Can we see what you have now? Maybe there are alterations you can make so you like it better.

Stop looking at dresses. You already have one and it was expensive.

Don't do it. (Not only can I not justify spending that much on a dress). You'll end up more confused than ever if you try the 2nd one on.

There are plenty of dresses I've seen (either in pictures or on friends) that I thought were beautiful and I loved, but I'm also super happy with my decision, and I always look at pictures of myself wearing it to remind me of how I felt that day.

My dress was ordered in a different color as well. The sample I tried on was a size 24, i'm a size 16. It was hard to visualize but in the end I loved the gown even in the sample, thus I ordered it. Have you looked for photos of your gown in white?? Each time I got nervous, or unsure, I pulled up the photos of my gown, if when I tried the sample on, and it eased my concerns. My gown took almost six months to come, Its still at the bridal salon. I won't have it until the week before my wedding.

By looking at more dresses, you'll always second guess the one you ordered.

I say stick with the original dress. Also, it's very common for dresses to take 6-8 months to be made and arrive at the store for you, so I wouldn't factor that into your decision.

Oh my goodness this dress is absolutely gorgeous!! I can definitely see your dilemma of wanting to know exactly what it looks like since you weren't able to try it on in white, but I would trust yourself in this process. But like I said, if you receive your dress and it's just not what you had in mind, go for it! Until then, just try to picture it and know it's going to be gorgeous. Love this one!

Honestly your first dress is stunning. The second one doesn't really do it for me. It looks unfinished on the top, or like PP have said, like lingerie. Stop looking at dresses!

Your dress is beautiful - but dress regret is a thing. It all depends if you are willing to take the loss of your money on the first one (most boutiques will not refund you/cancel your order). If money is not an issue for you, and you think you can't live without at least trying the one you're eyeing then do it.

I end up with regret but I could not afford another one, I spent some extra in alterations to feel good in my dress and it was all worth it, on my wedding day I was glad I did not end up looking for a different dress, it was perfect and meat to be the dress all along.

We can't tell you how to spend your money - but if you want opinions on the dresses, I like the first one best (the one you already have).

Maybe wait to see it again around Christmas and try one with nice hair and makeup? You can re-love your dress!