Hello. I really love the burgundy, white and gold theme, but I cannot find any good examples of how I want my decorations. I have searched and searched and everything is either too much gold or a red color. I really wanted a darker room uplighting rather than gold. Most decorators just want examples but cannot give me samples of how things would look. I would hate to pay for something and they cannot provide anything but a "this is the look you were going for with the pictures you have sent" Has anyone used these colors before?