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Wedding day is finally here and already problems

Lexi, on October 18, 2019 at 9:00 AM Posted in Planning 0 14

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One of my FH husbands groomsman didn’t show up the rehearsal or dinner last night. We FINALLY got ahold of him after a few hours and he said “yeah man, I’m not going to be able to make it anymore”. He had already bought his tux and everything just hadn’t picked it up yet. This is his best friend too y’all... supposedly. Things happen but don’t tell us the NIGHT BEFORE! His name is on every chart, program, and timeline and I’m just like ugh.

And to add I woke up with an incredibly sore throat so this should be fun 😂 but I’m sure everything else is going to go absolutely as planned and it will be beautiful! 💗💗

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Latest activity by Heather, on October 18, 2019 at 8:36 PM

Legend June 2019
Melle · on October 18, 2019 at 9:01 AM
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Congratulations though. Take a breather ! Everything will be fine
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null · on October 18, 2019 at 9:09 AM
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That's insane, but don't let it keep you down. Today is the day! Get some cough drops or mints to suck on, maybe some OJ (mixed with champagne? ) too! Congratulations
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Tanise · on October 18, 2019 at 9:22 AM
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So sorry this happened. And Congratulations on your day! Enjoy it to the fullest.
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W-K · on October 18, 2019 at 9:23 AM
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Happy wedding day! Pop some Ibuprofen and don't worry too much about it. Honestly no one will probably even notice that he's "missing" except for the people who knew he was supposed to be there.
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Katelyn · on October 18, 2019 at 9:23 AM
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That is so rude of him! But try not to let it get to you - enjoy your special day and try to relax! You've done all the planning up to today and now it will all come to life. I hope you have time to pamper yourself, take a breather, and relax Congratulations!
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AlexandriaJohanna · on October 18, 2019 at 9:31 AM
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Don't let him ruin your big day! It's extremely rude but not worth letting it get you down!

Screw him - grab some cough drops & have a MAGICAL WEDDING DAY
Congratulations! Our's is 10/18/20
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Olivia · on October 18, 2019 at 9:40 AM
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I'm sure you're getting ready to be married by now!! Congrats
Let us know how things go with the wedding and groomsman if he turns up!!
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Alejandra · on October 18, 2019 at 9:51 AM
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Yay!!! Happy wedding day! This is so exciting. I’m so sorry about the GM. He sounds like a butt. Please ignore him and have an amazing day.
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Rebecca · on October 18, 2019 at 10:45 AM
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Congratulations on your big day!!! That's ridiculous the GM would do that, but don't you worry. Remember, the most important part of the day is marrying your husband!!!
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Gen · on October 18, 2019 at 10:50 AM
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I'm so sorry this happened! I hope you can have a wonderful day regardless! Have extra vitamin C, see if someone can pick up some elderberry syrup for you, and some ginger tea! Feel better and have a wonderful day!
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Cyndy · on October 18, 2019 at 10:50 AM
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Happy Wedding Day! Don’t let the fact that he dropped out get to you. Today is about you and your FH so enjoy every moment of it. Gargle with some saltwater and take some cough drops and move on with your day. Good luck.
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Tara · on October 18, 2019 at 11:50 AM
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That's just awful and I'm so sorry to hear that It's so disappointing to hear that one of his best friends would do that to him, especially last minute. I'd try talking to him again to see what the deal is. Take some emergen-c, hot tea with honey, and relax. Enjoy your wedding day!!!!
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Rachel · on October 18, 2019 at 8:10 PM
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My FH best man is his best man. He lived with us for 8 months. He moved back to Colorado where he is from. We haven't heard from him in a few weeks and we talked to his parents and he told them he wasn't planning on coming 3 weeks before the wedding. He is disappointed and pissed to say the least but we saw it happening. Just gotta work him out of the ceremony
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Heather · on October 18, 2019 at 8:36 PM
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I would be so annoyed, but I hope your day was still amazing!
My FH's "best man" was so excited to have been chosen for such a position, but the last couple of months he has ignored us! Legit ignored because I messaged him on FB messenger where you can see he read it. I said my FH needed to talk to him about the wedding. Needless to say, he is no longer in the wedding party. We don't want a flake and glad we know 6 months beforehand. So sorry you didn't get the proper notice and congrats on the wedding day!
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