When we started planning our wedding I was anxious because they still talk about FH's first wedding and how spectacular it was. The food, the venue, everything. It was perfect. I do not have her attention to detail (but thankfully I have her notes) so I've been tied in knots worrying that our wedding is going to be the one everyone in his family complains about until they have something new to complain about.
I had almost gotten over this anxiety when yesterday we got the invitation to someone else's wedding a month before ours. They are having it at the first venue we looked at, which was all marble and looked like a Venetian palace to me. I turned it down because I told FH I wasn't comfortable getting married somewhere I was afraid to leave fingerprints. Now I feel like everyone is going to be comparing our wedding to theirs, and there is no way we're going to measure up.
Anyone else feel like this and how do you deal with it short of taking a xanax?