Want to switch my wedding band, what do you think?

Alright I’m confused by this site, but I just posted a photo to “photos” of my side to side.

So I picked my own engagement ring and at the appointment they showed me the band that goes with it. I’ve always wanted a plain band that matches my FH’s. Also, after the wedding I plan to just wear the band. So my FH wanted to get me a nice band.

I was all all excited about the E-ring that I wasn’t paying attention enough to remember my original preference of a plain band. Before I knew it, FH was buying me both rings.

This one is a little too bling for me. Now when I try the band and E-ring on together, the E-Ring gets totally drowned out. I want to switch for a plain band. I’ve also read reviews about the stones falling out of this band.

I finally got the courage to tell FH I want to switch. We are still within the window to do so. He says it doesn’t hurt his feelings and he just wants me to be happy. I still feel weird though. When we first got the rings in, he excitedly hid the band from me so he could give it to me on our special day (I know where it is, hence the photos lol) and was just super happy to have this to give to me. It was expensive so I don’t want to just keep it if I decide to switch.

What would you do? My photo is the side by side in “photos” w the crooked finger (horses lol). I swiveled the band around to see what it would look like with a plain band. Which looks better to you?