Sorry if this has been discussed before. I know people mentioned they feel hurt that they've been put on the b-list, but my RSVP deadline is 2 weeks away and I only have about 40% of responses (no surprise there). I know some folks have mentioned they most likely will not make it but have not given the firm RSVP. There are guests who did not receive a +1 because of our budget and venue capacity space that I would like to notify ASAP for those who can no longer make it. I know I shouldn't assume that they can't make it, but if they know, I wish they RSVP-ed no already so I can invite those +1's. Any thoughts if I should nudge those who might not attend? I know many have mentioned it's rude to send a hint prior to the RSVP deadline. But some of my guests without +1s are getting anxious and they need to make travel accommodations soon. Plus, those guests without +1 are getting leaning towards not going... I just wish people would RSVP if they already know they aren't going so I can invite others!!
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