Do you count your DJ and photographers as guests of the wedding for meals? My venue offers vendor box meals but I had a debate with someone at work that that was completely inappropriate and that you should be paying for your DJ to eat a meal with everyone else as they are there for 6 hours. I disagree with this as we are already paying him and why would I want him drinking at my wedding which is what most of the costs are for the meal? What do you think? We are also trying to get a small group of people to play strings during the ceremony..do you feed them as well? Thanks!