Unemployment benefits rejected my claim because i got married and move with my husband to his homestate

I asked my former employer for the transfer. He refuse to do it. He told me that I had to find a store on my own. Unemplyment rejected my claim because they said that I terminated myself because i did not commute to MA where the job was. My husband lives in another state so why is it that i would have to commute 6 hours to go and back. I have a 10 year with ADHD.They informed me that I voluntarily quit my job. How can unemployment side with my employer when they did not help me obtain a transfer to my home state. I can't afford a lawyer, my husband had financial issues before our marriage. He is finally caught up with is past bills. I am afraid that hiring a lawyer would cause us to fight financially. I feel suck!!!