My fiance and I are facing a pretty big issue: we're unable to find a Pastor to marry us. The ceremony will take place in India. The issue is that I am baptized, but she is not. We both come from a Jain Hindu background, and there are strong anti-conversion laws in India. State is Gujarat. So the plan was to get a court marriage, then perform a small ceremony. Her pastor is willing to bless us on the engagement day, but not perform wedding ceremony.
Anyone have any ideas on what we can do? We would rather have the wedding in India. Worst case scenario would be to have it when she comes here. But the problem with that is that since we are not officially married, we would not be able to stay together, and she has no family in U.S. We're blocked on both ends it seems.