Top Desires in your Wedding

1. My extended family needs to be there (we’re very close)
2. Photography
3. Dress

FH is also prioritizing photography, but he’s more focused on food than I am and he’s closer with his friends than his extended family

Fun post! We had a DW & local reception with different priorities.

DW:
1) Venue
2) Food & wine
3) Photography

Local reception:
1) Entertainment (band, impersonators)
2) Decor
3) Venue

Because I paid for my own dress & accessories I wouldn’t include them in “our” priorities but definitely important to me.

Food, photographer, friends.

1.photography
2. My bridal party feeling comfortable and loved ( including fiancé)
3. DJ
next would be good then venue the atmosphere.

My FH and I were just discussing this last night haha.
1. Attire
2. Venue
3. Decor

For my FH:
#1 Location
#2 Date
#3 Food
For me:
#1 Location
#2 Photography
#3 Food

1) making sure our VIPs could come

2) venue

3) photographer

1. DRESS 👰🏻 2. Photography 3. Location for the photography.

1. Venue
2. Dj
3. Entertainment (photobooth popcorn bar)

Me: beautiful ceremony, intimate/minimal guests, inexpensive.

Him: open bar, DJ, first dance.

If it's not blatantly obvious, I'm introverted and laid back while he is extroverted and a partier. We've compromised 😂. Party ends at 9pm on a Sunday.

1. My venue. We met there 34 year ago so it matters

2. the DJ we're hoping to find a way to afford it

3. My niece as my MOH

1. Music
2. Food
3. Family/ friends

not necessarily in that order

Mine
1. Dress
2. Good food for guests that everyone can eat(lots of dietary restrictions)
3. Good photos from a friendly photographer I jive with(I don’t want stress)

His
1. Live band
2. Food!
3. Manzanita tree(he REALLY wanted this tree!)

1. Venue
2. Photography
3. Dress

#1 venue & not a crazy amount of set up
#2 whole wedding under $5,000
#3 atmosphere (our HP theme getting across but more elegant and a relaxed night)

1. Photographer! (Definitely not as high on her list originally but she wasn’t too difficult to convince)
2. Food (we were quickly sold on fajitas - casual but yummy and easier for some of our dietary restrictions and picky eaters)
3. My dress (since it was something I always looked forward to, we wanted to prioritize it since we didn’t have much time in the planning process and didn’t want this to be a regret)

Venue
Food
Photographer

1. Venue/location (I wanted an amazing location for pictures)
2. Photography
3. Dress

1. Venue
2. Photography
3. Food

then my fourth was my dress. The top three was both mine and fiancé priority.

I would say
#1 Venue
#2 Food
#2 Fresh Flowers