Jazmine
Expert September 2019

Top Desires in your Wedding

Jazmine, on July 28, 2019 at 10:48 AM

Posted in Planning 51

OBVIOUSLY marrying your significant other is the #1! BUT as far as your wedding top 3s, what are/were they? What were the most important items in your wedding? For me, this is the top list: 1. Venue 2. Flowers 3. Photography What were yours? DJ? Dress? Decor?
OBVIOUSLY marrying your significant other is the #1! BUT as far as your wedding top 3s, what are/were they? What were the most important items in your wedding?


For me, this is the top list:

1. Venue

2. Flowers

3. Photography


What were yours? DJ? Dress? Decor?


51 Comments

  • D
    Super July 2020
    D
    • Flag
    1. Budget
    2. Food and open bar
    3. Date

    I'd say venue but if it didn't met those reqs it wouldn't matter.
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  • Samantha
    Super August 2019
    Samantha
    • Flag

    For me...
    #1 food and drinks
    #2 Jewish ceremony
    #3 DJ

    For FH...
    #1 open bar
    #2 everything cheap (or at least within budget)
    #3 my dress because he doesn鈥檛 want me showing up in a pantsuit 馃ぃ
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  • Futuremrsk
    VIP August 2019
    Futuremrsk
    • Flag
    For us is was:

    1. Venue/food ( most venues in our area also do the catering on site)
    2. Photography
    3. Ceremony
    4. DJ because it's so close and right up there.

    Everything else we just went with the flow on!
    • Reply
  • Sara
    Expert October 2020
    Sara
    • Flag
    1.Music
    2.Fun
    3.Food & drink
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  • Gen
    Champion June 2019
    Gen
    • Flag

    1. Location/venue

    2. Food

    3. Photography

    I specify Location over just "venue" because while having a beautiful venue was important to us, the most important thing was the location of the venue since my grandfather wouldn't travel more than like 30 minutes really... he's 86, and kept saying "oh have it wherever you want it's fine, I don't have to come" but he's one of the most important people in my life so I was of course not having it without him lol. My "dream venue" was the beach, but as we live a little over an hour from the beach, I chose my grandfather's presence over my dream venue without a second thought. So, venue was important but only within our location range.

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  • Cher Horowitz
    Master December 2019
    Cher Horowitz
    • Flag

    1. Beautiful venue

    2. Red velvet cake (took forever until I found a baker in my area to make one!)

    3. Photography / Videography

    • Reply
  • Ashley
    Super October 2020
    Ashley
    • Flag
    Family
    fun
    dress
    • Reply
  • Florida Marlins
    Expert October 2017
    Florida Marlins
    • Flag

    For my Husband:

    Getting married outdoors, Zero religion in the ceremony, no dance

    For me:

    Food & Drink, photography, reception place needed to be beautiful as is as I was NOT into decorating it! And it was!



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  • M
    Just Said Yes March 2020
    Mrs.
    • Flag
    Dress, photography, venue
    • Reply
  • Sarah
    Just Said Yes February 2020
    Sarah
    • Flag
    Venue, food, dress.
    • Reply
  • D
    Beginner November 2020
    Diennys
    • Flag
    Mine are Food, Booze and music!
    • Reply
  • Cerline
    Just Said Yes May 2020
    Cerline
    • Flag
    1. Attire
    2. Venue
    3. Decor
    • Reply
  • Florida Marlins
    Expert October 2017
    Florida Marlins
    • Flag
    View Quoted Comment

    Can I come to your wedding, lol?? (I am teasing of course!)

    • Reply
  • Ivy ORP
    VIP October 2019
    Ivy ORP
    • Flag

    She was adamant that I get a wedding I wanted since all of the choice was taken from me the first time. But I have loved planning this with her and can't wait for the big day.

    1. Our sons standing by our sides

    2. The atmosphere- We're renting a big beach house with a long backyard leading onto the water. We have planned every detail of the way it will be set-up, the tables and chairs, the music, the food, everything, but I want people to feel relaxed and like they're simply at a great cocktail party with the brides.

    3. Our outfits (The dress was my number one concern because of my size, but I finally get to feel like a bride and she doesn't have to wear a dress!)

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  • Christine
    Just Said Yes August 2020
    Christine
    • Flag
    1. My wife showing up 馃槀
    2. My dress
    3. Venue
    • Reply
  • Brandi
    Devoted September 2021
    Brandi
    • Flag
    Venue, photographer, and DJ....got to get funky on the floor
    • Reply
  • Ceelie
    Expert August 2019
    Ceelie
    • Flag

    I'd have to say

    #1 Venue (had to have the right setting for an outdoor reception)

    #2 Music (really sets the feeling and vibe you want IMO)

    #3 Photography (having those memories to look back on are a huge priority!)

    • Reply
  • Allie
    Master August 2019
    Allie
    • Flag

    1. Family to celebrate with us

    2. Photography

    3. Good food and drinks

    • Reply
  • Audrey
    Beginner March 2021
    Audrey
    • Flag
    Venue
    dress /suits
    food
    • Reply
  • Martika
    Expert September 2019
    Martika
    • Flag

    1.The most important for me was the venue. We will be spending almost all of our time in the venue. We wanted to make sure we had a place that was conformable and wouldn't mind being all day.

    2. Photography- wanted great pictures to look back on

    3. DJ- we are a music loving couple so we wanted someone that understood that. Our DJ is awesome.

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