Thoughts on Bachelor Parties & Lapdances?????

NOPE NOPE NOPE.... Im not Insecure or have lack of trust. Im strongly against this. My FH has more then enough women in his lifetime before me to be Wild Crazy and Free. He has been there done that. Im set against it and he is all for it because its Tradition.. Tradition my ass. He has me, why does he feel the need to be surrounded by naked women? Its a slap in the face to me, like im not good enough to look at and be touched by you need someone else one last time? Flat out its cheating if he goes, Im not okay with it at all. Why would i be okay with some random woman naked and touching and feeling him getting him aroused? that MY JOB. he is mine no one else. Would he be okay if my next door neighbor came up to me and decided to grind on me? touch me, whip his penis out at me? NO... NO he would be furious... same difference!!!

I'm not really into it. I think in the past FH was interested and so was I. But as our relationship developed i was less and less into the idea of having a male stripper and him having one. We have talked about our ideal parties and neither include strippers anymore.

I think what's important is that you and SO are on the same page. As long as you have discussed it and agree on your boundaries, you're good to go