Ok so how do I put this nicely? I do not want the boyfriend of my fiance's mother at the wedding nor do I feel like he should be honored. I know that sounds selfish but quiet honestly he's most likely not going to stay in the family for long he doesn't treat my future mother in law well. The only reason she hasn't broken up with him is because she feels bad that he wouldn't have anywhere else to go if she broke up with him. He does not work and doesn't bring money in at all, all he does is mooch off of her and my fiance's family. How can I in good conscience honor this man? Any advice on how to handle this would be appreciated.