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Taking Back Plus 1s Included on Original Wedding Invitations - What would you do if you were in my situation?

Chris, on August 20, 2014 at 2:37 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 61

So I'm a wedding guest at friend's wedding this coming weekend. I was sent a wedding invite a few months ago with an included plus 1 on my invite. I already have a date, she bought a dress for the event and I bought my gift in consideration that they were paying for 2 plates for us. They haven't met...

So I'm a wedding guest at friend's wedding this coming weekend. I was sent a wedding invite a few months ago with an included plus 1 on my invite. I already have a date, she bought a dress for the event and I bought my gift in consideration that they were paying for 2 plates for us. They haven't met my date but I've known her since I was 17 and we're 29 now, so it's not like I'm bringing just anyone.

But yesterday, I get a text message from the groom (my friend) saying he's sorry but he has to take back my plus 1 because he has family members from out of town that RSVPed late and he had to take back my plus 1 and other people's who were bringing their children. I was a little offended and read other forums, but I know it's not my wedding and they're entitled to invite whoever they want and I would've been perfectly fine with them not giving me a plus 1 from the get go, but the fact that my plus 1 got uninvited the week before the wedding made me a little upset. How do you react?

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  • OG Mrs.K (2.0)
    Master September 2014
    OG Mrs.K (2.0) ·
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    Too rude for words. A phone call at LEAST.... But a text?!?! People never cease to amaze me (and not in a good way).

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