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Rachel
Savvy May 2018

Sunday Weddings- Your thoughts?

Rachel, on November 9, 2017 at 7:04 PM

Posted in Planning 73

I? am having a Sunday wedding because they are SO much cheaper where I? live. I? am starting to feel slightly worried because I? have already had some people tell me they won't be able to get off work that Monday so coming to the wedding may not be an option (even though it will end at 9:30pm). I?'m...

I? am having a Sunday wedding because they are SO much cheaper where I? live. I? am starting to feel slightly worried because I? have already had some people tell me they won't be able to get off work that Monday so coming to the wedding may not be an option (even though it will end at 9:30pm). I?'m inviting around 130 people total, and I'm hoping that turns out to be 100-115 people and not any less because I? still want it to be a lively event. (There will be alcohol, just FYI)

I? just wanted to see what people's thoughts were about Sunday weddings. I? want it to be fun and I? don't want my guests worrying about the work week ahead while they are there.

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  • R
    Just Said Yes April 2018
    Robyn ·
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    I'm having a Sunday wedding as well, totally agree so much cheaper. I think you'll be ok.

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  • Elizabeth
    Expert April 2018
    Elizabeth ·
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    I'm having one. People would have had to take off Friday to get to a Saturday wedding, so what's the difference taking off Monday instead? Plus they have all weekend to explore if they want to come in early and hang out in a new location.

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  • Katie
    Expert July 2018
    Katie ·
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    @elizabeth many people I know don't have to take Friday off to go to Saturday wedding, even those flying across the country! I just try to grab a flight Friday evening or even Saturday morning if it's an evening wedding

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  • Katie
    Expert March 2018
    Katie ·
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    I know plenty of people who had their wedding on a Sunday. The people whom matter will make it there regardless of the day. I will say personally I am not a fan because I hate having to go into work on Mondays after, but I have never missed a Sunday wedding as of yet just because its a Sunday.

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  • Lili518
    Just Said Yes May 2018
    Lili518 ·
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    We are having a Sunday wedding and I am not worrying about it. Ceremony at 3 reception 4-8. So far the closest to us don't have an issue and will be there. I think it will be a good time and people will be happy. Hopefully at least lol

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  • Deirdre
    Super March 2018
    Deirdre ·
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    I've been to a Sunday wedding. Was it my favorite? No it was in another state, I didn't have a ton of vacation time, so I had to go in for a half a day Monday. Was it one of my great friends, so I sucked it up and dealt with it all, yes. Your people who want to be there will be there(wedding mentioned, had 200 there). You just might not get everyone, but the majority who want to be there will make it happen. It's not a huge inconvenience.

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  • K squared
    Super October 2017
    K squared ·
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    We had a Sunday afternoon/early evening wedding. Out of the 109 guests invited, 97 came. I couldn't have asked for a better day. In the weeks leading up to it I stressed that nobody would dance or drink and that my side, who isn't used to Sunday weddings, wouldn't have fun. It turned out amazing. My side kept telling me how much fun they had. And of course his side did too but I wasn't worried so much about them since we had the wedding on a Sunday for them (Jewish) There was a lot of people dancing (more than I expected) and the bar seemed to be busy until an hour at the end. The only people who left early were my friend and her bf (their dogs were in doggy daycare and they had to pick up) and my dad's friend and his wife. Of course, check with your VIPS and make sure the date works with them before you go with anything.

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  • Lisa
    Dedicated July 2018
    Lisa ·
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    Have you thought of maybe doing it close to a federal holiday where you most people already have Monday off?

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  • Opalite
    Expert October 2017
    Opalite ·
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    I had a Sunday wedding. 80 people came and we invited 89, so it was a pretty good turnout and was still very lively! People did leave on the earlier side but it didnt matter because I was super tired by the end anyway.

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  • Mrs Robes
    Devoted October 2018
    Mrs Robes ·
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    Sunday weddings are becoming super popular, at least in my area. I was recently in my friends Sunday wedding, she had a good RSVP rate. A lot of people did start leaving after cake, but at that point it was 9PM and she only had the hall til 10 anyway. Many had an hour drive back, and we all had work the next day. It was totally fine, honesty if that's what you want that's fine.

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  • Ms.Fox
    VIP May 2018
    Ms.Fox ·
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    I'm having mine on a Sunday. The next day is a holiday, so that's perfect for me and my guests.

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  • Mags
    Super July 2018
    Mags ·
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    It really depends on your personality and what you want. It sounds to me that you want high attendance and to party which is more likely to happen at a Saturday wedding.

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  • K
    Devoted May 2018
    K ·
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    I'm having a Sunday brunch wedding on a holiday weekend. We had a bunch of hurdles to jump as far as picking a date (had to be in May, couldn't be the first two weekends, and couldn't be a Saturday in late May), so it was the perfect solution.

    @Ms.Fox- Date twin, yay!

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  • B
    Expert June 2018
    Bridget ·
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    I've worked Sunday weddings before. People have fun times but lot more people leave early due to worrying about work and things. I notice them leaving after the cake. I do agree though that the price is more affordable for a Sunday wedding.

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  • K
    Savvy January 2018
    Katouchka ·
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    I'm also having my wedding on a Sunday. Majority of my family is traveling from out of town. I only have my co-worker that might have some issues. Due to all of us work in the same department lol. Who is going to take care of the patients? lol

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  • Katie
    Devoted November 2017
    Katie ·
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    We're doing a Sunday wedding ending around 6. It looks like most OOT guests already have a place to stay that night. I know a few will leave early, and I completely understand. It happens at every wedding.

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  • bluevelvet
    Devoted October 2017
    bluevelvet ·
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    Go for it!! I would have the attitude of "So I am a little sleepy on Monday....oh well!" I wanted a Sunday afternoon wedding myself (to save money, of course!) but was overruled!! Have a great time! People who leave early would probably leave early on a Saturday night, too!

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  • Kaye
    VIP October 2018
    Kaye ·
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    If I went to an OOT wedding on a Saturday, it's very likely I would have to take off Friday. This doesn't seem much different than a Monday for a Sunday wedding

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  • TheWrightGirl
    Super November 2017
    TheWrightGirl ·
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    @Kat, most of my oot guest will be driving in for the wedding. They would have definitely had to take off Friday for travel. But it all goes back to checking with your VIP's to be sure it's good for them. But like I stated above, I won't be offended if people leave early. I'm going to be so tired by the time 9:00 comes around.

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  • Mimi
    Just Said Yes September 2018
    Mimi ·
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    I feel like it don't matter the day because ppl wrk everyday so even if it was a Saturday ppl can get off Sunday....so if they going to come they going to come no matter what day it is....

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