Style Showdown!

Buffet (don’t let them get hungry), outdoor ceremony, indoor/outdoor reception (open-doors barn) modern barn, child-Free, Sunday Brunch, biz casual dress, DJ and dessert table (we don’t do cake) and fiancé is getting blue cheese wedge for his cake! Lol. It’s all uniquely us.

View Quoted Comment Big wedding, black tie, outdoor ceremony, adults only, DJ, sweetheart table, seating charts, plated food, buttercream, desert table, and late night snacks😍

Big or Small? In-between, invited 150 guests

Black Tie or Cocktail Attire? Cocktail, or cocktail/casual

Outdoor Ceremony or Outdoor Reception? Outdoor, but have a plan B

Adults-Only or Kid-Friendly? Kid-friendly, he has grandkids

DJ or Band? DJ

Sweetheart or Head Table? Sweetheart Table

Escort Cards or Seating Chart? undecided

Plated or Buffet? Buffet and heavy finger foods

Fondant or Buttercream? undecided

Dessert Table or Late-Night Snacks? Dessert Table

Big or Small? Small-ish! 100-150.

Black Tie or Cocktail Attire? Cocktail to casual

Outdoor Ceremony or Outdoor Reception? Outdoor Ceremony, indoor reception

Adults-Only or Kid-Friendly? Kid-friendly

DJ or Band? DJ

Sweetheart or Head Table? Head table

Escort Cards or Seating Chart? Seating chart

Plated or Buffet? Buffet

Fondant or Buttercream? Buttercream, alllll day!

Dessert Table or Late-Night Snacks? Dessert table

Small, cocktail attire, indoors with a view (outdoor ceremony if I had to pick 1), adults only, band, sweetheart table, seating chart, buffet, buttercream, dessert table.
Despite all the above, I'm doing a DJ but will have a violinist for the ceremony and cocktail hour. I actually don't want any kind of designated seating but the FH does so that's his assignment. We are doing a plated dinner, but I always prefer the buffet styles.

Small! Only parents and siblings
Summer dressy/casual for guests
Outdoor - Cabrillo National Monument, San Diego, CA
Adults only - headed to a brewery for the day
No formal reception
—but the beer fest will have 3 bands
— no tables
whipped Marscapone frosting
Eating all day!!

Action chef cooking 😎 small, indoor ceremony, sweetheart table.

Plated and a sweetheart table. People are going to sit where they like. It is an intimate wedding. 60 guests.