I am having a hard time finding a song that fits me and my friendship 'type' for my bouquet toss. I would rather not do it at all but my groom will not let me opt out. So I want a hip hop type song, upbeat and preferably performed by a woman. Please do not recommend Beyonce. I love her work, but I do not want to use songs that are always used (Single ladies & Independent women--love both songs, but I am trying to be a little more unique). Any help would be soooooo appreciated.