Slow Dance Games?

Nope - this is awkward, not cute and pretty weird. You don't force your guests to do anything. This is bad.

I would be very uncomfortable being forced to dance with other people other than the person I came with. Forced dancing is never fun.

"I'm thinking like having somebody be a murderer that slowly kills people off until they are discovered"

Why do you think anything FORCED would be fun? This is extremely weird. I can guarantee you if you tried to FORCE me to do something I didn't want to as a guest at your event, I'd walk right out the door. Also, whats the deal with drink tickets???

I can't even begin to understand this. There's so many weird things about this post.

No..... Way way way to awkward

ETA you don't force you guests to do anything

WHAT? This is one of the weirdest things I have heard. I would absolutely not participate if I attended a wedding that did this.

ETA: @Kris I hope you have drink tickets for the bar!

Weird. Sorry. I will be hiding out by the bar while you try to make grown people play childish games and force them to dance with each other.

Don't force your guests to do anything. You don't need games or activities.

Why is this even a question?

Forced dancing. Drink tickets. Swingers thing? So much weird and wrong.

I don't get this. Why would you want your wedding to be associated with a murderer in any way? But to answer your question: I've never heard of anything close to what you're asking about here.

I have so many issues with this post. OP: No. Just no.

So much strange in one post.

@ZeldaBride, you forgot murderer

I do not want to be forced to do anything at a wedding. Just like the stupid garter/bouquet toss, being forced to dance when I do not want to is really degrading and rude. Not only would I leave your wedding, I would exit, stage left from our friendship too.

To answer your question: it sounds lame and not fun.

Please do not force your guests to do anything.

I love 90s music, so that's what we are going to have our DJ play.....and I'm sure our guests will dance without us having to force them or by giving them drink tickets.....(please don't)

I didn't mean to use the word "force" - actually meant encourage. Edited accordingly.

Thanks for all your input.

No one wants to be encouraged. I'm sure your heart was in the right place, but it really doesn't sound fun!

I think you had good intentions with suggesting something, but I think it will end up having the opposite effect. People will feel awkward about being forced to participate in some weird game and will choose instead to go to the bar until the weirdness is over.

I personally love 90s slow jams and plan to have a few thrown in throughout the night. (98 Degrees' I Do being pretty high on my list...) My advice would be to spread them out. People will still dance without any encouragement from you. If you throw them all together, then people might get bored after 1 or 2 and drift off the dance floor, but I don't think slowing it down every now and then is a bad thing at all.