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Harmonie aka "Wedding Ninja"
Savvy November 2017

Secret reception location

Harmonie aka "Wedding Ninja", on July 13, 2017 at 11:41 AM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 127

HI! So, I need some advice as to how to word invite that the location for ceremony is listed but reception to follow at location to be disclosed afterward in a more warm way!

HI! So, I need some advice as to how to word invite that the location for ceremony is listed but reception to follow at location to be disclosed afterward in a more warm way!

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  • Malei
    Super October 2018
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    I read through every single comment (and enjoyed it) only to be disappointed that the OP hadn't returned to answer. Boo.

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  • N
    Master December 2016
    Nancy ·
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    You gonna have a secret reception at Area 51 maybe??

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  • Emily
    Expert February 2018
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    I seriously sit on her refreshing my post until I get a response LOL. Come back OP!! We need answers!!

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  • andrea
    Super September 2017
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    What happens if someone can't make it to your ceremony and only wants to come to the reception. I have an uncle that can't make the ceremony but is coming to the reception because of work. So what happens in that situation?

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  • FutureMrsBurroughs
    VIP October 2017
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    Waiting for OP like.....


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  • LillyBean17
    Master October 2017
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    Lol OGKathryn yes that is probably what is happening!

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  • Future Mrs. D.
    Super October 2017
    Future Mrs. D. ·
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    Personally, I would need to

    know location to pick the right outfit and shoes. Formal? garden? Barn?

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  • New
    VIP May 2017
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    If I got invited to something like this I'd send a "secret" gift, too.

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  • Malei
    Super October 2018
    Malei ·
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    @MrsD17 YASS! Location of gift to be disclosed at a later date.

    ETA: Now you have to find a way to tell her that in a "more warm way"

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  • Red2018
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    Thought OP would've come back by now... Guess not.

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  • Jaimee
    Master October 2019
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    Is the reception location secret because you don't have one in mind yet, or...?

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  • Jaime
    Super October 2017
    Jaime ·
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    Post and ghost

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  • Hbanana1111
    Super September 2017
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    Now I'm dying for op to come back and explain. Lol. This just sounds disastrous.

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  • Lauren17
    Master July 2017
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    Lol this is absurd. OP is never coming back Smiley sad

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  • LillyBean17
    Master October 2017
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    Jay, my guess is that OP wants to invite only certain people to the reception but still having many others fawn over her at the ceremony and this is a way to weed people out.

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  • SageTree
    Super July 2017
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    What would be the point of this?!?

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  • Talullah
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    Talullah ·
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    Why? Its pretty freaking weird. When do you plan to tell them where it is? How do you plan to tell them? Ok, let's say you put it on the program. What do you do with ppl that don't go to the ceremony? They don't know where the hell to go for the reception. Sounds like alot of no shows or RSVP no's. Do you have a where's Waldo theme or something?

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  • Stephanie
    Super May 2018
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    Unless you're famous, which we all are pretty sure you're not, this is hella dumb. As an anxiety ridden planner I just wouldn't go

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  • Malei
    Super October 2018
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    *sigh* Guess I'll come back again later (translated to 2 minutes) to check for OP.

    OP, whatever your reasoning is, I promise to give it a "like" just for coming back! That's all I got to give. Haha

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  • MAMW
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    OP if you came back and told people why you were doing this, you might actually be able to get suggestions.

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