Resistant Bridesmaid Wants Super Sexy Dress

View Quoted Comment Lol wanna be a bridesmaid

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So...she wants to be a bridesmaid, but won't be respectful of the bride's wishes...like a bridesmaid is supposed to do? Ah jeez...

View Quoted Comment Oh wow! I agree stay calm...is she your best friend? She seems a bit controlling and obviously dont trust your fashion sense which I find a bit disrespectful. How do your sister's feel about her changing the entire dress? And why is she going out her way to change the dress. Smh seems like a personal issue for her. At this point maybe consider if its worth having animosity amongst your bridal group for a dress...or if its really upsetting you, maybe tell her she making this issue bigger than it is, it's one day suck it up lol! If she really doesn't want to support your decisions then dont be apart of the bridal festivities.

View Quoted Comment My sisters are fine with the dress I picked and two already ordered their dress.

View Quoted Comment Wait. So dresses have already been ordered? Then you’re done. The decision has been made. She either orders the dress that has been chosen or she can attend the wedding as a guest. Don’t give her anymore attention on this matter.
Good luck!

Your wedding day is about you first. Nobody else needs to be on display. She should be putting you and your wants first. You should pick a dress style that compliments most in your bridal party without being too "showy". If anything you can have them pick between 2-3 different styles of the same color.

View Quoted Comment Well there is your answer...she cant pick out the dresses nor can she make changes you don't approve of. But unless you dont intend to cut her out the BM group, you may have to come to a middle ground because she might end up doing whatever she wants either way and end up upsetting you on your big day if you dont nip this situation in the bud.

View Quoted Comment I did do that and the other bridesmaids chose the most comfortable dress for the country style wedding . But she wants something sexy.

It’s not about what she wants it’s your wedding not hers. She can wear the dress you pick or not be a part of the bridal party period. I’ve been a bridesmaid or MOH 6 times I would never dream of putting my opinion in about the dress and I’ve definitely worn some ugly ones 🤣🤣

This post feels like a soap opera moment.
So all the girls ordered the dress except for her.
All the girls responded except for her.Two of the girls picked up their dress already and had them overnighted.My moh has opted and requested to look like all the other girls as to not feel different and be like the others and to not make anyone feel bad.They have until April 15 to respond that they have their dress, it fits, and that they are still on board with being a BM if not... Deuces.

View Quoted Comment Lol 😂😂😂😂

View Quoted Comment Yup exactly. My mother has been angry and she went off. Gavel has been dropped

View Quoted Comment #facts you are correct

It's YOUR day. Not hers. Let her know without shame

View Quoted Comment My mother became savage like Jamaican savage. I have not spoke to her since