Ok I have posted before on here about how I dont have family..at all. My friends are all out of state and arent willing to come up here for my wedding...ok so tonight I read this http://www.reuters.com/article/2009/06/08/us-japan-weddings-idUSTRE5571IY20090608 and I think its the answer to everything!! lol (totally kidding I wouldnt do this but thought it would be funny to share)