We are having a destination wedding (4 hours drive out of town). I'm trying to decide on a rehearsal dinner. My aunt suggested just having it at a restaurant and she suggested just having people pay for their own meals. Is that OK or should I foot the bill?
The groom's mom has offered to help plan it but so far has not offered any money.
If we get catering or something like that I think I will have to pay for it all, and I would like to extend the invitation to anyone who has travelled on the Friday, not just the bridal party and immediate family. Thoughts?