Reducing cleavage (without alteration) - advice needed

To me it looks okay, but I get what you mean. I am 4”7 with 28E. I asked to remove the pads and we will give a 2mm thin cup a try. If that still looks weird to me, I will wear nipple covers.

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Did they think that removing the cups would eliminate some of the "squish"? Mine are very shaped inserts, which aren't at all the shape of me. I'm nervous about removing them because I also don't want the sports bra look going on. I didn't even think of just a different type of cup!

First off, I ADORE your dress!! I think you look absolutely gorgeous!! I'm also quite busty (an H cup) and I am 100% being honest when I say I really don't think you look like you have too much cleavage. I'm sure it feels that way, but I think you look very tasteful. I know I always feel like I look like I'm falling out of things when they're low cut and I'm usually not, so I wanted to let you know, it really doesn't look like you're about to fall out or like you're showing too much. I'm not sure if tape would help; you could definitely always try and see if it works! You should also FEEL good on your day. As someone who has struggled with having "the biggest boobs" I totally get where you're coming from. But I swear, you look amazing and there's no harm in embracing that!

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I thought about trying the tape today at my fitting, but I was also nervous about taking forever playing with tape LOL. I'm going to try to get a technique down before I go in next.

That is really reassuring though. Part of getting this dress was the sheer neckline that I felt would hold me in so I don't have that fear all night that I'm going to lean forward and BOOM. I'm going to try to keep it in mind though and try to see the whole picture and not just boobs. Ugh. Thank you so much!

View Quoted Comment She is going to tighten my dress on the upper torso area to bring the girls closer. The original cups that came with the dress are push up cups and I look terrible with it. It looked pushed way too much up, and I just want a natural looking cleavage.

You look amazing. If changing the cups doesn’t help, let her put some lace appliqués on top. She’ll be able to pin a few to show you. It’s so easy and can create any amount of coverage you want while keeping the overall look in tact.

Your Dress Is So Beautiful !

Oh my gosh you look absolutely gorgeous in your dress. I wish I had some advice but I have the opposite problem...not enough cleavage 😂
You are going to look amazing on your wedding day!

You look amazing!!!! Personally I think you're showing just enough, very classy but if you want more coverage adding the lacy on top would be beautiful too.

I don't have boob advice, but I just wanted to say that you look absolutely amazing in your dress! Like wow, stunning

I love your dress you look amazing and your boobs look good. My boobs could never.

I’m having the same problem! 34G here and tried wearing plunge strapless dress but none fit me. I’m considering tape as well but I would have to do research

***bra for my plunge and backess dress didn’t work

You look absolutely beautiful!! I think trying a different cup is your best bet to keep it looking natural, but also avoiding the pushed-up look you said you don't like. Let us know what you think with the new cups!