Ok a church friend is singing a solo. My daughter's boyfriend is playing a small piano part. Now honeslty I was just going to give them $100.00 as a thank you. It's not like they are vendors. Well my daughter texts me yesterday asking about how much we planned to pay her boyfriend and she recommends 250-300! I'm like WHAT? Really? She goes on about how he's sacrificing, etc. First of all I am paying for his hotel room too. I know they young and struggling but we have other people to pay and that adds up. I was going to get thank you gifts for my ushers, hosts, my parents and my aunt who made my flowers. Not to mention we are paying the officiants (2 of them). Even the soloist "friend" gave us the side eye when we mentioned 100.00. So my FH is throwing in a gift card too.
OK am I being cheap or are they being greedy?????? What are you paying the extras in your wedding?