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MNA
Master April 2018

PSA: Flagging non-vios is Flagging Abuse...

MNA, on October 14, 2016 at 8:56 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 61

...and is against the Community Guidelines. You cannot flag a post because: -You disagree with it -You don't like it -You become butthurt by it -You are offended by it -You think it is "harsh," "mean," or "rude" -There is no name calling, personal attacks (and no, telling someone their idea sucks...

...and is against the Community Guidelines.

You cannot flag a post because:

-You disagree with it

-You don't like it

-You become butthurt by it

-You are offended by it

-You think it is "harsh," "mean," or "rude"

-There is no name calling, personal attacks (and no, telling someone their idea sucks does not qualify), stalking, etc

Posts to flag:

-Advertising

-Posts that include name calling (again, as the Mods have stated many times, calling an IDEA stupid is okay, calling a PERSON stupid is NOT!)

-posts that are personal attacks

-posts that tell someone not to post/how to post

-posts that tell people to leave

-"Bye Felicia" posts, UNLESS they are directed to someone who has announced they are leaving

-posts that announce the person is leaving

Flagging non-vio posts is a strikeable offense, so keep that in mind.

Regulars: Feel free to email mods at community@weddingwire.com about the unreasonable flags, as they CAN see who has done the flagging and take action, esp. on serials.

61 Comments

  • MNA
    Master April 2018
    MNA ·
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    @KM: Ding, sing! We have a winner! That's literally exactly what happened. She asked a poor etiquette hot topic question, I was one of the first to respond, and she has continuously attempted to goad me into attacking her since. Unfortunately for her, it has only ever backfired.

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  • Flying
    Master May 2017
    Flying ·
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    MNA has not attacked anyone...FMR you can't just make stuff up to make your actions look better.

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  • FreshToDeathAng
    Master September 2016
    FreshToDeathAng ·
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    MNA is the shit. Anyone that says otherwise is acting a bit delusional.

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  • future_mrs_c2018
    Super October 2017
    future_mrs_c2018 ·
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    @FMR seriously...what did @MNA say?? I love the advice she gives even when I don't necessarily want to hear it at that time

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  • BeachDreams
    Master May 2017
    BeachDreams ·
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    Making inappropriate and offensive comments about someones past relationships = personal attack

    Calling wedding decisions and ways you treat your guests rude = not a personal attack

    Hmmm, I wonder what category FMR fits into.....

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  • Flying
    Master May 2017
    Flying ·
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    FMR- it's midnight...what would you like her to be doing with her degrees at this time? She's on WW before bed just like everyone else on the east coast.

    Poor west coasters can never just get on WW and enjoy getting advice because it's always clogged up with people claiming we are all rude bitches.

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  • MNA
    Master April 2018
    MNA ·
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    I can dish it out but I can't take it? Please, tell me where I've started a thread asking about a horrible idea or something incredibly rude, then thrown a fit about the responses?

    Oh, wait. I haven't. Because I know how to pick up an etiquette book (or two or three!) and read them. I also have an abundance of common sense, as well as logic, which allow me to avoid taking bait to *actually* attack another member of the community.

    Am I blunt about things? Yep. If you think I'm bad, you should hear DF. You know what? The things I say wouldn't piss you off so much if they weren't true. Interestingly enough, 30 people can respond to you, some can be even MORE blunt or *actually* rude, yet it is me you focus on. Why is that? You've done it time and time again.

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  • future_mrs_c2018
    Super October 2017
    future_mrs_c2018 ·
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    FFS @FMR open your eyes, act like a grown up, not like a special snowflake, this is not a kumbaya sing song by the campfire, support group...

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  • Laura
    Champion June 2010
    Laura ·
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    Criticism of an idea is not a personal attack. If people are name-calling or actually personally attacking, please flag them for review by our team.

    https://www.weddingwire.com/corp/legal/community-guidelines

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  • future_mrs_c2018
    Super October 2017
    future_mrs_c2018 ·
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    @MNA rocks!! Smiley smile

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  • MNA
    Master April 2018
    MNA ·
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    Thank you again WWLaura! <3

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  • MNA
    Master April 2018
    MNA ·
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    Bump before bed!

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  • B
    Master July 2026
    Beatrice ·
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    Fmr you ate being very condescending right now towards MNA who has only ever given advice.

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  • Spirit
    VIP October 2016
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    FMR cries about getting personal attacks by MNA and of course, OF COURSE, violates community guidelines and has her next comment flagged.

    Way to go!

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  • Kristi
    Super October 2016
    Kristi ·
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    Bump

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  • Phylicia
    Super April 2017
    Phylicia ·
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    FH woke me for his morning PT test... thanks FH.... because I didn't want to sleep in.... he responds with "oh yeah don't act like you're not going to cuddle with Dexter in bed while reading WW" damn he's good...... Bumpity bump bump bump

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  • OGJessieJV
    Master July 1867
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    @FMR I've seen the threads you've honed in on MNA and attacked her. You have advocated for returning gifts for cash, friendors, treating your family ill, and all kinds of etiquette no-nos.

    You came onto this site guns blazing, and instead of taking a break and lurking, as was suggested, you spew out idea after idea, one worse than the next, attacking people who have been on this site longer than you have.

    @MNA good luck! Hopefully this little flaw gets fixed, it drives me nuts.

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  • Flying
    Master May 2017
    Flying ·
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    A quick good morning bump

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  • Nancy
    VIP January 2017
    Nancy ·
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    I like a good bump in the morning. Smiley winking

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  • future_mrs_c2018
    Super October 2017
    future_mrs_c2018 ·
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    Anyone have a feeling that @FMR is trolling? I mean she does have three stars and a default avatar

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