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Alyssa
Master December 2019

photography

Alyssa, on December 8, 2018 at 3:13 AM

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Rude one probably... Our “plan” is no photographer i feel like it’s the hugest waste of an incredibly large sum that I have ever heard of I joined ww and there’s a lot of cant wait for pro bam and here’s my pro bam Why do you think it’s necessary to have a photographer? Yeah... I’m not even sure I...
Rude one probably...


Our “plan” is no photographer

i feel like it’s the hugest waste of an incredibly large sum that I have ever heard of

I joined ww and there’s a lot of cant wait for pro bam and here’s my pro bam

Why do you think it’s necessary to have a photographer?

Yeah... I’m not even sure I want to add the cost of expenses Only for a college kid dying to start a portfolio

i do have time so my mind can still potentially change but here’s my line of thinking

i just don’t feel like it’s “necessary” because in my opinion it’s not rocket science to make sure everyone is looking and smiling before you snap the picture; and literally even most idiots could handle standing still while your family gets in and out of shots

maybe it takes common sense to know hey 1st dance: maybe I should take a picture?

I just feel like my family is highly intelligent and any one of them, or any friend, or the wedding party can handle snapping a shot for us

i am going to use tacboard.com

basically I believe as the “moments” happen plenty of people will photograph them and it’s hard for me to believe that there will be no good or perfect shots just because there wasn’t someone there making a boatload to watch a party
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  • MOB So Cal
    January 2019
    MOB So Cal ·
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    OP -- You're the bride. I don't see anything on this list that is "morally wrong." Some of it might not be the most traditional, but that's not "wrong." The only person you should be compromising with is FH -- not your sisters, not your in-laws or anyone else with an opinion. If you want a black and white wedding and to wear tennis shoes, then grow a backbone and say that's what is going to happen. If people don't want to come, it will be their loss. If you don't want a professional photographer, then DON'T have one. The only people who have to agree about the wedding and its details are you and FH, but YOU are the bride, so your opinion counts AT LEAST 50%! In your posts, you sound kind of miserable, and like you are starting to see yourself as a victim. In my opinion, that's not how a wedding should make you feel. Have a good long conversation with FH and make sure YOU are being heard. (FWIW -- daughter is having a very traditional wedding and is wearing Converse in the wedding color that we had customized for $10 with her new name and the wedding date at a local shop that makes custom t-shirts. They are adorable, and if she's happy with them NOTHING else matters....) Good luck to you -- really, planning a wedding should not make you this unhappy. Smiley heart

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  • Kenisha
    Champion June 2019
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    It didn't take me long to find someone. I'm a planner; I hate not being organized so I had all of my vendors picked out and booked pretty quickly. I actually found all of my vendors on here.

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  • Alyssa
    Master December 2019
    Alyssa ·
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    I appreciate the input and contribution to the thread and genuinely apologize for any offense given
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  • Alyssa
    Master December 2019
    Alyssa ·
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    Wow

    thats an impressive review for WW!!
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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
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    While WW is a great resource for other's opinions and input, it seems you more so need a place to talk about your feelings, to get down to the root of your issue with having your photo taken (and wedding planning in general,) while also not degrading people on a public forum. Perhaps a blog or a diary? Counseling and therapy area also great resources.

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  • Alyssa
    Master December 2019
    Alyssa ·
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    I apologize for any offense given and believe everyone is entitled to an opinion

    thank you for contributing yours

    yo each their own on family affairs and a forum is probably not the best place although I do see similar threads of people hoping to get justified and instead being disappointed

    i definitely own some of my comments were not entirely polite or kind and am willing to apologize to anyone involved because that’s not right

    i reacted poorly to not hearing hearing what I wanted and we have differing opinions on other issues but I do apologize
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  • Alyssa
    Master December 2019
    Alyssa ·
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    I completely own that I should have gotten offline and apologize
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    You're my favorite


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  • D
    Super September 2019
    Dana ·
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    There is sooooo much going on the day of the wedding i can guarantee you people wont be taking as many pictures as you expect. Also you dont want people to take away from having fun by photographing you. You dont need all the bells and whistles but you can get the basic package which would be a nice touch.
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  • Alyssa
    Master December 2019
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    Thank You for the tip and contributing
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  • Nikita
    VIP April 2019
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    ^This^

    The only person you should be compromising with is your FH. Not his family or yours. It is your celebration. That's a struggle a lot of us brides face. And frankly, it sounds like a photographer is really one of the least significant.

    I definitely understand family pressure. I wanted to courthouse marry because of my family. If they had their way, there'd be a jerry springer showdown in a ballroom with chandeliers and enough taffeta to make me choke. But his family is amazing and close. And I couldn't take that moment away from him. So we compromise.

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  • Alyssa
    Master December 2019
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    Thank You very much for your time and contributing
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  • Whitney
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    Whitney ·
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    If that’s your opinion, nothing anyone says can change that. Its clear there is a basic lack of respect for the artists and professionals that good photographers are.

    Im skimping in a lot of areas, shoestring budget. I have found a good photographer for a good price ($350), because I want to be able to look back and remember, with beautiful photos. I’m working hard to create a celebration of something incredibly important.



    Why wouldn’t one want good pics? It takes more than point and click—but low standards take less talent to meet.
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  • Alyssa
    Master December 2019
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    Thank you for the tips and for contributing
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  • Whitney
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    Whitney ·
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    My post was pretty harsh and I can’t find a delete button 🤷🏻‍♀️ I don’t mean any offense, just saying no one will change your opinion.
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  • Alyssa
    Master December 2019
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    Life happens

    im not easily offended
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  • Whitney
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    You’re really going in to so much detail/work with your theme, its a shame to risk poor photos.
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  • Alyssa
    Master December 2019
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    Everyone on WW feels that they’re amazing artists and definitely needed for their weddings
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    We are hiring a professional because I want our family and friends to enjoy the day. If they want to take pictures, that's great. If not, that's ok too. Like others have said, they can capture the light in ways most people cant. Plus, I wouldnt want to have to try and track down all those people just to get photos. Our photographer will edit them, send them to us, and then we get to meet with her and create a custom album that tells the story of our day. I know I can give her and her assistant a list of certain shots I want, and they will get it done. Photography was the second most expensive thing for us other than our venue and catering. And I am so happy we are spending that money. To not have to stress and know our day is being captured on film and the pictures will be beautiful, to me, is worth that process tag.
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  • Alyssa
    Master December 2019
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    Thats awesome that you’re pleased with your decision

    thank you for contributing and I. Apologize for any offense given
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