I know that it is a grey area when talking about paying an officiant who is a family member. My FH's uncle is a Pastor in Pensacola, FL and will be officiating our wedding in Illinois. My question should we/how much should we "gift" him for officiating our wedding.
I was thinking about possibly paying for his plane ticket here. Should we also include his wife's ticket? He has children that will also be coming so that's where it may become a slippery slope but what do you all think is our best option?