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Just Said Yes October 2020

October wedding in Albany

Joanne, on June 8, 2020 at 10:37 AM Posted in New York Planning 0 4

Hi everyone! We're planning on getting married on 10/3/20 in the Albany area, but are considering canceling all together (and having a courthouse wedding) or postponing until next year. There's a small chance we'll still have the wedding on 10/3 with a much smaller guest list but we don't want to put guests in the position of having to decide if their safety is "worth" coming to our wedding.

Our venue has said that they've been refunding couples who can't reschedule, but this was when covid was at its peak. Since NY is reopening, I have a feeing they're not going to do that for us, unless there's a second wave in the fall.

There's a chance we'll hold the wedding on 10/3 this year anyway and have a smaller guest list. But we won't know what the guidelines are until last minute and we might have to cancel.

Would you take the financial hit and cancel the wedding all together (I doubt our vendors will refund their deposits)? Also, does the fact that we signed contracts hold us legally responsible to pay vendors the full amount?

Sorry this is all over the place- I guess it reflects how confused/cluttered my brain is!

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Latest activity by Lynnie, on June 12, 2020 at 5:37 PM
  • Rebecca
    Master August 2019
    Rebecca ·
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    Hi, and welcome!

    Each contract will be different, and you'll have to look at them to figure out what you owe.

    Honestly, I'd have a miniwedding this fall, and postpone the larger one for next year.

    What phase is Albany in? I think a lot of your decisions will be shaped by how Albany looks in August.

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    Just Said Yes October 2020
    Joanne ·
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    Thanks! Albany is in phase 2, I believe. We’re moving through the phases faster than I thought we would.

    I like the idea of a mini wedding! I just hope our families and the bridal party feels comfortable traveling though.
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  • Queen Cone
    Devoted September 2020
    Queen Cone ·
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    You will know the guidelines pretty soon because upstate ny is almost heading to phase 3. you will know phase 4 guidelines by july 1st or so. my wedding is sept and im waiting till mid july to see what they will be
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  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Administrator October 2016
    Lynnie ·
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    Hi Joanne! Hopefully you'll hear what the phase 4 guidelines are soon and that will help you make a final decision! It's wonderful that your venue was initially refunding couples, but I'd also be doubtful that any company can extend considerations like that forever!

    Definitely check what your contract says about cancellations, and you can also check out these discussions where other Fall NY couples are sharing their concerns:

    Buffalo, ny Venue revising to change my wedding date to 2021

    (New York) October 2020 Brides — when will we say i do?

    Fall Westchester weddings - When are you making the call?

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