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AlexisM082
Master February 2016

NWR: Ex's coming out of the woodwork

AlexisM082, on September 23, 2015 at 1:29 PM Posted in Community Conversations 0 57

Anyone else's ex's coming out of the woodwork or just me? I told FH about one that recently messaged me on IG and he was so cool and calm about it! I would have been like, "Did you tell that hussy we're getting married?!?!?!"

But then again... that's why he's my other half LOL. We're total opposites, and yet equally just as weird.

57 Comments

Latest activity by Tammy, on September 24, 2015 at 12:31 PM
  • mrs1780
    VIP September 2016
    mrs1780 ·
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    I haven't had exes, but I have had random people from school, both hs and college, tell me about how they always had crushes on me and how lucky FH is.

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  • Kristina
    Master September 2016
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    It seems my daughters father always come out when we are happily living our life lol He isn't in her life at all and hasn't been in a lonnng time. I always say he can sense the happiness.

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  • JCB
    Master September 2015
    JCB ·
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    No thank God! One reason I don't have Fb.

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  • OriginalKD
    Master December 2015
    OriginalKD ·
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    My FH got a call from one of his exes trying to get back together on the day of his first wedding. I told him I am completely expecting him to get a call on our wedding day - you know, tradition :-)

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  • Janeen
    Master January 2015
    Janeen ·
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    Mine, unfortunately, never went away lol.

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  • Ally
    Master October 2016
    Ally ·
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    Not yet. But I wouldn't be surprised if some do right before or after the wedding.

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  • AlexisM082
    Master February 2016
    AlexisM082 ·
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    This one isn't even friends with me on FB, but he follows my IG. He told me how awesome I was and gave me some bs about how he wasn't ready to drag anyone down a financial burden with him and blah blah blah. Ummm... OK? He wanted to apologize to me, but I found it totally unnecessary. Then he tried to keep talking about how he's going back to school and what did I have for dinner? This is what I made... I just ignored him. We're not friends buddy.

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  • Bethie
    Master May 2016
    Bethie ·
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    I luckily have not had any exes come out of the woodwork since being engaged. I've had a few over the course of our relationship as well as people I've known for a long time confessing their love and how they wished they had a chance. I tell FH and he is so chill about it. He's like "oh really? too bad for him." I would be fummmmming. Like "where is she!? I'm gonna show her a thing or two!"

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  • Snarky
    Master September 2014
    Snarky ·
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    No, they haven't even been blips on our radars in years.

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  • AlexisM082
    Master February 2016
    AlexisM082 ·
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    @Bathie LOL sounds like me! @Rachel that is SUPER creepy!!! You can only hope that her grandmother's name is also Rachel or something LOL

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  • Bethyonce
    Master February 2015
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    That is weird Rachel. Be glad they're gone.

    I didn't really have anything like that. I had the guy that I dated briefly before DH text me and ask if I was only marrying him for money because DH isn't as good looking as him. Ummm no. I replied and asked him how his wife was. He was separated (told me divorced) and I found out he had never filed. They just no longer lived together. Ew.

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  • Trisha
    Master August 2015
    Trisha ·
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    I was really surprised I didn't have any. There was one I was sure would give me a drunken call.

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  • SimpleSeamstress
    Master June 2015
    SimpleSeamstress ·
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    Ugg yes. Ran into one that I thought when I was younger that I would end up with forever. I stopped all contact with him when I started dating my husband. 3 years later I run into him in a bakery when I was visiting my hometown. He tried contacting me after that so weird and awkward.

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  • Adoretamm
    Master May 2016
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    My ex just completely blocked me from everything as soon as he found out I was engaged.

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  • MrsPope
    Master September 2015
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    I had one inbox me and say "I don't know if I told you this before but congrats, and I want nothing but the best for you"


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  • Jennifer
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    Jennifer ·
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    Hasn't happened yet, but I'm expecting my 2nd husband to come out of the wood work. He always does. And, like the worm he is, I keep stomping him back in...

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  • R
    Beginner September 2015
    Ruren ·
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    Not yet, but I'm on a lookout since FH is inviting his ex's cousin-one of his best friends, to the wedding. Hope all goes smoothly since she was trying to get back with him when she found out we were together.

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  • Amanda
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    Lol @Ninjaaa that is hilarious!!!

    Only one my ex husband....when FH & I got engaged he called & told us congrats & that he is happy I found someone who treats me right & wished he had treated me better (his mistake) :/ Oh well still on good terms with him for our son Smiley smile

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  • Missy
    Master October 2017
    Missy ·
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    No, not yet anyway. There is only one ex who I think would even attempt it. He used to say that if/when I got married he would show up, to stop it (and he was serious). Thankfully we live in different provinces now (practically on opposite sides of the country) and I haven't had any contact with him at all in the last 4 years. Hopefully it stays that way.

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  • JestersQueen
    Savvy August 2016
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    Yes Girl! I had one ex on Sunday FB message me after 3.5 years (he wanted to marry me lol) I told my FH and he was like "It's just the devil working you", but screenshoot it and send it to me LMAO!

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