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Just Said Yes May 2024

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Anna_Delfierro, on August 12, 2019 at 11:33 AM Posted in Planning 0 8
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So I moved my wedding date to 2021 for a few reasons. 1 we are moving and its alot of money that we have to use from our E.F.

2 the only people who know is my close family and his family.

Now here is the big one I moved my date mainly because my bestfriend in the whole world is getting married April 25 of 2020 and I don't want to ruin it by announcing mine so I pushed it back an extra year. Did I do the right thing or should I change my date back to May 23 if 2020.

I dont mind a small close friends and family wedding $ is not a problem for me and my mom. But my Bestfriend comes first right?

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Latest activity by Clíodhna, on September 13, 2019 at 10:32 AM
  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    I don’t see how announcing your wedding date is going to ruin your friend’s wedding, but you do you.
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  • Ivy ORP
    VIP October 2019
    Ivy ORP ·
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    I question why your best friend comes before what you want. If you don't want to postpone your wedding, then I don't see why a wedding an entire month after hers would make that much of a difference. Really, it's what you and your fiancé want.

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  • Cyndy
    Master May 2019
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    I think you should move forward with your wedding in 2020. You won’t ruin your friends wedding at all.
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  • Allaura
    Devoted April 2021
    Allaura ·
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    My best friend is getting married in 2020 and even though I did not want to have an extra long engagement I didn’t want her to worry about my wedding in the same year so I chose a date in 2021. It’s honestly been a good thing because I have less stress and more time to help her with hers. 🙂 I think you did the right thing!
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  • Jill
    Expert April 2020
    Jill ·
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    I have a friend who was originally planning on getting married May 2 and mine is May 30. I wasn't upset at all! She ended up moving it to March for venue availability, but either way I was going to help her 100%. Have you tried talking to her about having your wedding in May?

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    Just Said Yes May 2024
    Anna_Delfierro ·
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    My fiance could care less on the date aslong as I'm happy and we have our close family. He just want to choose a location up north.
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  • Cher Horowitz
    Master December 2019
    Cher Horowitz ·
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    I really don't see how you would be ruining your friend's wedding. Getting married on nearby dates doesn't take away from each of your days!

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  • Clíodhna
    WeddingWire Administrator January 2030
    Clíodhna ·
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    Hey Adrianna! Did you decide to proceed with your 2021 date?

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